01-05-2012, 10:34 PM
meeting
i was my partners trick about 3years ago. We were not wanting a relationship, he had a partner of 15 years and i was in a failed straight marriage. Later he was at his partners house taking a nap, got up and slipped on an unknown used condom. This ended the 15 year relationship.
Phase 1
We dated for about 3months, he moved in. I knew i was gay and in love but in the closet + married generated too many issues. He left but introduced me to his lawyer friends. I got the divorce and fixed the issues.
Phase 2
I called to thank him for the free lawyers. We met up and did it in a parking lot, never made it inside the bar. A few days into dating, big argument and i wanted to end it. He is very camp and less than half my body strength. The phucker punched on my face, i did not react and he did it again. He was effective, some loose teeth and swelling. He said i was important to him. Next few days he profusely apologized. I never had anyone buy me flowers, he never bought flowers for anyone. We dated for about 3 months. He moved in.
Currently
We have been able to work out everything so far that has been in our way. We love each other so that makes it easy to talk through things. We have little in common so a sole mate not. I respect his likes and desires and he gives me mine. We never stopped loving each other through all of this. What he does well i do not, what i do well he dosnt so it seems we add up to more than two in the end. We both want the relationship to work, appreciate how fragile things can be and dare not do any big bad.
Please wish us luck.
i was my partners trick about 3years ago. We were not wanting a relationship, he had a partner of 15 years and i was in a failed straight marriage. Later he was at his partners house taking a nap, got up and slipped on an unknown used condom. This ended the 15 year relationship.
Phase 1
We dated for about 3months, he moved in. I knew i was gay and in love but in the closet + married generated too many issues. He left but introduced me to his lawyer friends. I got the divorce and fixed the issues.
Phase 2
I called to thank him for the free lawyers. We met up and did it in a parking lot, never made it inside the bar. A few days into dating, big argument and i wanted to end it. He is very camp and less than half my body strength. The phucker punched on my face, i did not react and he did it again. He was effective, some loose teeth and swelling. He said i was important to him. Next few days he profusely apologized. I never had anyone buy me flowers, he never bought flowers for anyone. We dated for about 3 months. He moved in.
Currently
We have been able to work out everything so far that has been in our way. We love each other so that makes it easy to talk through things. We have little in common so a sole mate not. I respect his likes and desires and he gives me mine. We never stopped loving each other through all of this. What he does well i do not, what i do well he dosnt so it seems we add up to more than two in the end. We both want the relationship to work, appreciate how fragile things can be and dare not do any big bad.
Please wish us luck.
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