01-16-2012, 11:24 PM
basilfrog, sounds like you know your first mistake and you're prepared for any consequences that my follow.
Typically it's always best to just get out of a relationship and work trough the past before starting another. It sounds like you just got off with your ex yesterday and today there's this new guy after meeting him once, talked twice ...
Personally, that can tell a lot about a person character. I'm not going to be judgmental here, but it's just to say be careful with this new guy, because he may as very well see what I've mentioned above.
Chill out man, you're totally rushing this, and a bit over obsessed if you asked me. I would have imaged you'd would have at least want to reflect on your past relationship, but maybe that won't happen because well, you very well knew a few month before the break up that it wasn't working out, and it sounds like a mutual thing.
Regardless depending on this new guy, it may very well be that he's not going to judge you for the past or wonder why you're jumping from one relationship to the next so fast. Another thing I'd be cautious about is having such high hopes for this new relationship so fast.
Just be careful, you just recently got out of a relationship, take it easy with the new guy. Get to know him a bit more, patience.
Typically it's always best to just get out of a relationship and work trough the past before starting another. It sounds like you just got off with your ex yesterday and today there's this new guy after meeting him once, talked twice ...
Personally, that can tell a lot about a person character. I'm not going to be judgmental here, but it's just to say be careful with this new guy, because he may as very well see what I've mentioned above.
Chill out man, you're totally rushing this, and a bit over obsessed if you asked me. I would have imaged you'd would have at least want to reflect on your past relationship, but maybe that won't happen because well, you very well knew a few month before the break up that it wasn't working out, and it sounds like a mutual thing.
Regardless depending on this new guy, it may very well be that he's not going to judge you for the past or wonder why you're jumping from one relationship to the next so fast. Another thing I'd be cautious about is having such high hopes for this new relationship so fast.
Just be careful, you just recently got out of a relationship, take it easy with the new guy. Get to know him a bit more, patience.