01-16-2012, 11:34 PM
Thanks . . . the relationship ended a week ago . . . I accepted all the consequences of ending the relationship (loss of friends, home, dog, etc) and don't have a problem with those things because I know it give the rest of my life more hope.
My problem is that I don't know how to stop thinking about this other guy. We've been on four dates and talked a lot through text and phone. This weekend, since he was busy, the contact has dropped significantly. It's affecting my daily life and work because I am always wanting to check my phone or text him. . . . I've only felt this way about one other guy before . . . I've tried dating before and never had this feeling except with the 5 year relationship guy . . . I wouldn't mind waiting if I could be ok while I am waiting . . . but I can't eat or sleep through the night. What do I do to chill out?
My problem is that I don't know how to stop thinking about this other guy. We've been on four dates and talked a lot through text and phone. This weekend, since he was busy, the contact has dropped significantly. It's affecting my daily life and work because I am always wanting to check my phone or text him. . . . I've only felt this way about one other guy before . . . I've tried dating before and never had this feeling except with the 5 year relationship guy . . . I wouldn't mind waiting if I could be ok while I am waiting . . . but I can't eat or sleep through the night. What do I do to chill out?