Moving from one relationship to another

[basilfrog]

I am planning on doing the big move in the summer. His work takes him out of town for weeks on end and there's a dog to worry about . . . plus moving in the winter sucks . . . so I am thinking june I will be out.

I am not worried about myself too much . . . my family is great so I have a safe fall back . . . I have some money saved so I don't think I'll be in trouble in that aspect.

yeah I felt the same way about the guy I was with for five years . . . I was in love then, but naive as to what I wanted . . . I think. I tried to ignore the things that were different but they caught up to me.

what are the guidelines for gay dating? I don't know what is normal. Only dated one guy before and he was a lot older than me so I think my perspective was skewed. I like answers, and I am frustrated by situations like this where I don't get clear cut answers . . . how long I should wait, etc.