01-20-2012, 02:23 PM
Awe, well hey you're taking the first step by identifying yourself for who you are.
You don't have to come out to your family (not yet). I'll wait till you're more secure then reconsider coming out, you don't wan to life your life lying to them do you?
If you feel up to it your sister sounds like a good start, given that she's such a big supporter chances she "may" be "bi" if you have suspicions. Maybe become a supporter yourself with her for starting out if you don't feel comfortable coming out to her yet.
I have two younger brothers, they may have their suspicions, one because my younger brother (the second one) caught me once watching gay porn lol. --.--' awkward! We never talked about it till today...
I haven't told anyone in my immediate family, but I did send a big hint to my cousin and she supported me 100% she even gave me advice on one of my relationships.
So take it easy, become more comfortable with yourself and your surroundings, then when you're READY do what you have to do. : )
Good Luck!
You don't have to come out to your family (not yet). I'll wait till you're more secure then reconsider coming out, you don't wan to life your life lying to them do you?
If you feel up to it your sister sounds like a good start, given that she's such a big supporter chances she "may" be "bi" if you have suspicions. Maybe become a supporter yourself with her for starting out if you don't feel comfortable coming out to her yet.
I have two younger brothers, they may have their suspicions, one because my younger brother (the second one) caught me once watching gay porn lol. --.--' awkward! We never talked about it till today...
I haven't told anyone in my immediate family, but I did send a big hint to my cousin and she supported me 100% she even gave me advice on one of my relationships.
So take it easy, become more comfortable with yourself and your surroundings, then when you're READY do what you have to do. : )
Good Luck!