Is the age of nice guys with values dead?

[72jay]

but at his whole thing with hook ups, cheating, open relationships and the like is awfully tacky and scummy. So am I being totally silly? Am I being over the top? Or do I just have an old souklthat doesn't fit in with people of my age? But please tell me, is anyone else out there with the same values I have?

I'm kinda like you here as far as beliefs go... I don't believe in random hookups / open relationships / cheating, its not something I'd do, and if I was with someone, I'd expect the same from them. I may be oldfashoned for thinking like that and wanting something meaningful, but its just the way I am LOL

I would always call cheating all of these: bad values, tacky, and scummy

As for random hookups, as I've mentioned elsewhere: not my thing ... a bit tacky (maybe), but I won't go as far as to say "bad values" or "scummy", instead just "different values than mine" . If both people understand/agree it is "just sex/nothing meaningful" then is any harm really done?