Is the age of nice guys with values dead?

[Evilbunnie]

[COLOR="red"]The world, much like the average person, is always changing and growing and going through cycles. Right now the world is all about what's face-paced, flashy, and convenient. Instant gratification, swag, and media frenzy is in, morals and values are out. Even the love songs are different now, all about how "you can't stand the b*tch you're with so you f*ck some other b*tch and drink all the time and drunk text and everyone is miserable so lets all do some coke and have a party in overpriced designer clothes", and the people eat it up. That's kinda how things are now. So, yes, there are guys out there who share your morals and values and blah blah, but they're hard to find. What you'll find out as you grow older is that from generation to generation nothing has changed as far as finding someone who is on the same wavelength as you. When you look for people of a certain quality, the quantity of people shrinks.

As you get older you'll also find that morals and values don't hold nearly as much weight, and that by holding on to them so tightly, you deny yourself of experiences that you might have enjoyed and been better off for having.

ANYONE can cheat, everyone is human. Not every relationship should come to an end because of one stupid mistake... the strongest relationship is likely the one in which the bond is so strong that one lover is able to forgive the other and move forward and thrive as a couple, it might even serve to strengthen the bond. Open relationships are not BS, they actually work really well for a lot of people. It's all a matter of personal preference. I could go on about specific things you mentioned all day but I don't really feel like it. It seems to me that in some ways, your views on relationships, morality, values, and sexuality are somewhat black and white. I used to see things that way... imagine my surprise when lots of things turned out to be gray. I'm not saying you're gonna grow into some free loving nympho... (I sure didn't) but you may feel different about a lot of things later on. [/COLOR]