01-29-2012, 10:18 AM
Genersis Wrote:To answer the OP.
That situation would drive me nuts.
Knowing a great guy, but knowing i wouldn't be able to sexually gratify myself.
To be blunt, the only sexually organ i'm sexually attracted to is the penis, i'm not sure anything else would do and i'm actually quite turned off by Vulva/vagina.
I really couldn't say if i could compromise unless it actually happened.:redface:
I've really been trying to figure out how to answer and I'm still not sure I'm happy with where I am on this issue. :redface:
I think I would want to know (NOT on the first date) but if things got to a third date or so I'd need to know. I'm just not sure I'm mature enough to handle it and I would hate to hurt someone who has already gone through so much emotionally.
Genersis really explains my problem (bold).