01-30-2012, 11:03 PM
azulai Wrote:I've really been trying to figure out how to answer and I'm still not sure I'm happy with where I am on this issue. :redface:
I think I would want to know (NOT on the first date) but if things got to a third date or so I'd need to know. I'm just not sure I'm mature enough to handle it and I would hate to hurt someone who has already gone through so much emotionally.
Genersis really explains my problem (bold).
What a man has down there is a big deal to you, isn't it? I don't mean to be too personal asking you this. If you're not going to have anal sex with the man you like, is genital still an issue?