Relationship (and sex) with a transman

[pisceskhminh]

Hmmm....I am not really sure I can give you a definitive answer but I probably know more than most people thanks to my friend Tony....

Brief background...I had a friend named Tony who hitchhiked across country and when he came back he knocked on my door at 9 pm one night and he bought the "lady" with him that had given him a ride from Texas....she was maybe 300 pounds and had bright orange hair and a gold lame jumpsuit with boots...YIKES! He leaves...she stays...breaks down crying to say she didnt' have a place to stay and no money so I told her to stay..she got a job...eventually had two other "ladies" come out ...one from New York via Peurto Rico and one from Puerto Rico and I decided to ,move out of my own house because I was living with Trans Hookers and they brought their work home with them a few times...not cool...they had breasts and a penis and they made alot of money from men who were straight and liked having the visual of a woman with the equipment of a man. I wouldn't trade a second of my time with them even though it was just short of six months total...they were funny as hell and very interesting. You wouldn't know any of these guys were men for a second. They did not want to lose their penis...they liked having it. This is a whole other realm (chicks with dicks) that you rarely hear anyone ever talk about. From the ones I have known personally I can say they are the peeps with the least amount of drama in them so maybe that is why...from what I have noticed with those three and the subsequent ones I met over the years they aren't the type that has the need to be understood or accepted and generally they seem to be quite happy....I think that is why I liked them.

The funny thing...one Christmas I brought them all over for Christmas Dinner with my family....they were dressed like (and behaved like:biggrin Charlies Angels. My mom and dad and aunts and uncles and cousins and brothers all liked them. After dinner the skinny one from New York with a heavy Puerto Rican accent entertained everyone with her rendition of Wonder Woman. One of them gave my mom a makeover and she came out looking like...a hooker

My family was very liberal:biggrin: Thats the nice thing about alot of city people...

Thank you. I understand now. Although it's their choice, I can't helping thinking that it's miserable to use our bodies for making money. I know that many people have their bodies tattooed, their ears, lips, or nose pierced. That is not pain free, is it? But at least, they do that to manifest their personality. What you describe makes me feel sad.

Even though those "chicks with dicks" are not people who means any harm, true transsexual people can become victims of transphobia.