Relationship (and sex) with a transman

[mrk2010]

Of course you don't offend me or other people. And what you say actually makes sense. Socially, a transman is a real man, but he's biologically a female. As long as people see them as men, they should be proud of themselves.

Back to what you say, what do you think about men who have surgery to change their genitals? I mean they are biological males; they are happy with their male appearance; they are masculine. Everything about them is male except that they are psychologically dysphoric with their penis, and they desire to make it look different: either cut it or invert it. But they don't want to become women. And let's say that they are good-hearted people and also honest with you about their status. Do you think you can develop a romantic relationship with them?

i know this question is really strange. If I didn't read about Josef Kirchner, a gay man who has bottom surgery and stays a man, I wouldn't know such people exist. Realjock site has a thread talking about this too.

Regarding after surgery, I would still say female, but a female with a phalloplasty. Even though they have still had surgery they are still the gender they were but as stated previously they can live how they want. Even if a person was honest with their status I would not and Could not develop a relationship with them. I am a man, I am attracted to person who was born male, who has a real penis and who is in all respects a male. It's just the way I and many others see it.