02-07-2012, 01:12 AM
Thank you everyone for your advice. I completely agree...cheating is cheating no matter who it's with. I want to leave..I'm tired of constantly finding "surprises" from him and being hurt. I know I don't deserve to be treated like this but my situation is complicated. For one thing, I have 3 young children who love their home, their father and have happy lives and I don't want to tear their worlds apart. I also am a stay at home mom with no income and have no family that I can just leave and go stay with. I have a mom in her 80's all away across the country but that's it. No other type of family support. I feel very alone and trapped right now. This kind of just threw me for a loop and I am trying to better understand what's going on with him. Thanks for taking the time to read and offering advice. Azulai ~ I am definitely getting tested. That was one of my first thoughts when I read about the whole condom thing. Yet another thing I need to worry about right now. :frown:
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