02-07-2012, 02:12 AM
sounds like this has been going on for ever. If you put up with it soooo long take your time, develop an exit plan, than get a divorce. Divorce is an ugly back stabbing thing, i mention this so you will play by those rules and get as much for your children as you can.
If you still sex him use a condom. There are free clinics where you can get a complete std and hiv panel of tests for your self. do this tomorrow. Where there is a risk of exposure, gay men are generally well educated. HIV is not something you contract because you crossed the moral line but Its a finding a partner, male or female, that is willing to have un protected sex this day and age
gay or straight anyone can cheat on their significant other. This is not a trait known only to the gay community and in fact relationships, gay or straight, are mostly the same.
If you still sex him use a condom. There are free clinics where you can get a complete std and hiv panel of tests for your self. do this tomorrow. Where there is a risk of exposure, gay men are generally well educated. HIV is not something you contract because you crossed the moral line but Its a finding a partner, male or female, that is willing to have un protected sex this day and age
gay or straight anyone can cheat on their significant other. This is not a trait known only to the gay community and in fact relationships, gay or straight, are mostly the same.