Straight wife seeking advice

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Dear calicandy70. I think that here we have a problem, not about your husband, but about the way you have tolerated his clear vices and cynical behavior all this time. I understand that you have three children with him, cause my mom was in a similar situation many years ago. I don´t think the matter is if he´s trying to date a gay man to have sex, if he´s gay or bisexual, if he had done it before, or if he does this with women. The question is, why do you need to put up with a creep like that?. That´s not quality of life. Are you aware of the dangers to have sex without protection although it may be just a blowjob?. I´ve seen this before, cause many of the gay people I´ve met are very irresponsible when the time to get laid comes…you don´t know where they put their dicks. He´ll start with a tiny little blowjob, but then they may finish fucking without condom, and who do you think will pay for it?. Well, we´re not all like that, but believe me, there´s a lot of randy and lustful people straight and gay lurking everywhere. I think that a respectable straight woman like yourself deserves to have a quiet and peaceful life with a man that loves and respects her. If you´ve witnessed his constant infidelity, why don´t you leave him once and for good?. If you are financially dependent on him you can make a plan to become independent, maybe take a part-time job and you´ll eventually get the stuff you´ll need to live with your children, get specialized legal consultancy to bring forward the reactions of your husband and how to deal with the problem…From my gay perspective, it doesn´t matter if your husband is gay/bi/hetero curious/straight…you don´t deserve to be treated like that, and to be in constant uncertainty about the whereabouts and whatnots about your husband moves. What example do you think you´re giving to your children?. That a person has to put up with the nerve and dishonesty of his partner just because he´s the main source of money, because there are children or because she doesn´t want to be alone?. You think they don´t know anything about what´s going on between you and your husband?. Don´t you think that they will benefit with the example of a mother that respects herself living a pleasant and decent life alone and independent, without having to be worried all the time, or with a partner that is reliable and affectionate?. Don´t get me wrong, I´m not trying to worry you, just to tell you don´t have to put up with anybody, that´s not the reason you´re here in the world. First you need to care for yourself and make the decisions that help you to grow as a person and feel comfortable and calm, so you can care for you children and give them your best time and mood. I hope everything goes well for you. Cheer up and carry on!.