02-10-2012, 07:58 AM
You are welcome here of course.
When I think of your husband and his behavior the word that comes to mind isn't: gay, straight, bi, etc. but unfaithful he has cheated on you with both sexes. He doesnt look like he's going to stop and you don't deserve this kind of treatment.
It's a little to late to tell you that you shouldn't enter into a relationship in which you are completely financially dependent on the other person, but just because you already did so doesn't mean you're stuck there, you can get a job or even training for a more lucrative job is an option (there is no reason to quickly flee as you've put up with so much for this long) and should you get a divorce (IMO, you should) a judge will grant you child-support and alimony to supplement you're income and he won't get partial custody as you can easily prove his infidelities.
as for your 3 happy, well-adjusted children, they will become 3 unhappy, mal-adjusted children if raised in this environment (this was already explained above).
Not to make this all sound easy, it won't be. But my mother was in the same position many years ago and (the problems were much more complicated than chronic infidelity) and she went back to work and then left him and believe me if she can do it so can you.
Remember I turned out fine ( I think, lol) and as I harbor no ill will to my mother, but am proud of her for what she did, I surmise your children will ultimately feel the same way.
The bottom line is you don't deserve to be treated like this and did nothing to cause it.
The posts above are also filled with good information such as the need to get tested for STD's.
The best of luck
When I think of your husband and his behavior the word that comes to mind isn't: gay, straight, bi, etc. but unfaithful he has cheated on you with both sexes. He doesnt look like he's going to stop and you don't deserve this kind of treatment.
It's a little to late to tell you that you shouldn't enter into a relationship in which you are completely financially dependent on the other person, but just because you already did so doesn't mean you're stuck there, you can get a job or even training for a more lucrative job is an option (there is no reason to quickly flee as you've put up with so much for this long) and should you get a divorce (IMO, you should) a judge will grant you child-support and alimony to supplement you're income and he won't get partial custody as you can easily prove his infidelities.
as for your 3 happy, well-adjusted children, they will become 3 unhappy, mal-adjusted children if raised in this environment (this was already explained above).
Not to make this all sound easy, it won't be. But my mother was in the same position many years ago and (the problems were much more complicated than chronic infidelity) and she went back to work and then left him and believe me if she can do it so can you.
Remember I turned out fine ( I think, lol) and as I harbor no ill will to my mother, but am proud of her for what she did, I surmise your children will ultimately feel the same way.
The bottom line is you don't deserve to be treated like this and did nothing to cause it.
The posts above are also filled with good information such as the need to get tested for STD's.
The best of luck
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