Very Confused guy!!!

[calicandy70]

As a wife, I have been seeking advice from some of the members here because I have been going something similar with my husband although I caught him in the act emailing someone back and forth. I know you are probably confused and need time to figure things out, but please, if you really love your girlfriend sit down and tell her how you are feeling which I'm sure will be very difficult. Or maybe tell her you need some time apart to figure things out. Don't let her find out like I did. I would have had much more respect for my husband if he would have sat down and just talked to me. It seems you might be on the verge of being unfaithful to her. Once you start spinning a web of lies it gets very difficult to get out of it. Just wanted to give a little advice from the woman's perspective. I'm sure whatever you need to do will become clear soon.