03-02-2012, 10:08 AM
Hello guys,
i need your advice.
Recently, i met this guy on a gay dating website. I havent met this guy in person although, but, i seem to have taken a fancy to this guy. He is cute, intelligent, very educated, studying in one of the elite institutes in India. This guy basically belongs to the same state that i do, and we share a lot of things in common. He is exteremely down-to-earth, believes in simplicity of life, and doesnt beleive in running after materialistic things in life. He is very spiritual and a staunch beleiver of GOD. We have spoken only a few times so far, but, every conversation has gone for like 2-3 hours. I cant help keep talking to him once i call him up as he just fascinates me with his talk, and the stuff that he talk. I think i totally love this guy, as i feel like talking to him more and more. is it healthy to be carried away so much by someone so early, as we havent even met yet. Yesterday, i proposed a meeting to him, he said he wants to go slow, and not meet so ealry. I couldnt really understand why he said that, as i just wanted to meet casually. Although, i adore this guy, but, i am wise enough not to get too emotional and behave immaturely. I want to just be with this, either as a friend or whatever that i am not sure of. He is a very relationship seeking guy, who doesnt believe in dating randomly for sex. I dont know how to go ahead with him, as i guess, he likes me too, as what he has mentioned a couple of times in conversations before. Please advise.
i need your advice.
Recently, i met this guy on a gay dating website. I havent met this guy in person although, but, i seem to have taken a fancy to this guy. He is cute, intelligent, very educated, studying in one of the elite institutes in India. This guy basically belongs to the same state that i do, and we share a lot of things in common. He is exteremely down-to-earth, believes in simplicity of life, and doesnt beleive in running after materialistic things in life. He is very spiritual and a staunch beleiver of GOD. We have spoken only a few times so far, but, every conversation has gone for like 2-3 hours. I cant help keep talking to him once i call him up as he just fascinates me with his talk, and the stuff that he talk. I think i totally love this guy, as i feel like talking to him more and more. is it healthy to be carried away so much by someone so early, as we havent even met yet. Yesterday, i proposed a meeting to him, he said he wants to go slow, and not meet so ealry. I couldnt really understand why he said that, as i just wanted to meet casually. Although, i adore this guy, but, i am wise enough not to get too emotional and behave immaturely. I want to just be with this, either as a friend or whatever that i am not sure of. He is a very relationship seeking guy, who doesnt believe in dating randomly for sex. I dont know how to go ahead with him, as i guess, he likes me too, as what he has mentioned a couple of times in conversations before. Please advise.