I met two guys tonight and need to get your advice on what to make of it?
03-03-2012, 06:51 AM
This evening I stopped at a place and there was this one guy whom I have talked with before and even when I didn't know him he was always very friendly with me and it seemed like both of us hit it off right away. Keep in mind that this was prior to tonight.
I didn't know that this guy would be at the same place tonight so I went in to check out some stuff and he was there and it was like we clicked right away. I had to go do something and came back a little while longer and he was doing something so I was waiting for him to come back.
Any way there was this other guy that had passed by and before they came into the store he looked at me and nodded his head and I didn't know who he was at all. He went by and then later he came in and it was before the other guy had come back. This other guy said hi and all and then this guy that I had talked with before came up and we all started having a conversation.
It was obvious that they were good friends and from the vibe that I was getting it seemed like they were a gay couple. The thing is that once I started thinking this the other guy that had glanced at me before coming into the store randomly states that there are some people who think that he and this guy that he is friends with are gay. This was like once I had thought this initially. I never stated anything or made it obvious.
We all three hit it off and that other guy said that these people thought that they both are gay. I said that just because guys are close with each other doesn't mean that a person is gay. And they both immediately agreed and the guy that I had gone into visit with and had talked with a couple times said they probably think that were gay because we had told the people that they had gone to a party that was gay oriented. As the one guy put it a "homo" party. Which I thought was kind of strange to put it that way. I told them both that I had no problems with people being gay and they said the same thing. The guy that I talked with a couple times said I don't care if they do think that we're gay.
And they had talked about some places that they like to go frequent. I told them that I like those places too. And the conversation became where all of us made plans to do something in the future and that the other guy who had glanced at me before coming in into the store said I'm game. I thought that this is kind of different for someone to say this but it was cool. The guy that glanced at me we both said goodbye and he left and went out the door and when he got outside I looked at him, and he looked back at me and then proceeded to keep walking. It was as if he was checking me out and he did this too when he didn't come into the store right away and it's my feeling that he was checking me out and that he was interested in me.
I need some feedback on all of this. I have never met guys that would freely talk about something like all the gay stuff with someone in whom they don't know that well. It's my feeling that they were trying to see how I would react to the situation. I have also never had a guy glance at me before coming into a store, and nod their head and then proceed to come in a little later and also to have a guy on his way out look back at me when he was leaving.
The guy that I talked with a couple times has this glare like he looks at me as though he's interested in me or something. I honestly would say that I like both guys and that their both very attractive. I have never considered liking two guys at the same time but if you asked me which one I like better I would honestly say that I like both of them equally. I always am usually a one guy person, but for some reason I am finding that I am interested in both of them.
My question is why would they mention something about gay stuff and people thinking that their gay when they don't know me that well? My thought is that the reason why they brought it up was to see how I would react and it seems like both of them are interested in me. Also, the fact that this other guy looked at me and gave me a nod and then came in a little while later seemed like he was checking me out and then when he did the same thing on his way of leaving the store by looking back at me seemed as if he was showing that he was interested in me.
The other thing is that this guy I have talked with a couple times we starred at each other and it wasn't just like a regular thing where you just look at then go about other things. He has always looked at me and has been very friendly.
What do you all make of what I have had to say? Do you think that by either of these guys behaviors that it is showing that their interested in me? Does it sound like the fact that they mentioned that others think that their gay to stranger sounds ;like they were trying to see how I would react and to show that they both might be interested in me? What should I do when I meet with them and has anyone else ever had this experience? If anything obviously they went to some kind of gay oriented celebration not sure exactly what it was but for them to bring it up seems like their trying to make a statement or something to me. Any feedback and advice would be greatly appreciated. And like I say I like both of them and if the opportunity presented itself I would do things with both of them and just need to get some pointers as to how I would go about it and all. Thanks.
I didn't know that this guy would be at the same place tonight so I went in to check out some stuff and he was there and it was like we clicked right away. I had to go do something and came back a little while longer and he was doing something so I was waiting for him to come back.
Any way there was this other guy that had passed by and before they came into the store he looked at me and nodded his head and I didn't know who he was at all. He went by and then later he came in and it was before the other guy had come back. This other guy said hi and all and then this guy that I had talked with before came up and we all started having a conversation.
It was obvious that they were good friends and from the vibe that I was getting it seemed like they were a gay couple. The thing is that once I started thinking this the other guy that had glanced at me before coming into the store randomly states that there are some people who think that he and this guy that he is friends with are gay. This was like once I had thought this initially. I never stated anything or made it obvious.
We all three hit it off and that other guy said that these people thought that they both are gay. I said that just because guys are close with each other doesn't mean that a person is gay. And they both immediately agreed and the guy that I had gone into visit with and had talked with a couple times said they probably think that were gay because we had told the people that they had gone to a party that was gay oriented. As the one guy put it a "homo" party. Which I thought was kind of strange to put it that way. I told them both that I had no problems with people being gay and they said the same thing. The guy that I talked with a couple times said I don't care if they do think that we're gay.
And they had talked about some places that they like to go frequent. I told them that I like those places too. And the conversation became where all of us made plans to do something in the future and that the other guy who had glanced at me before coming in into the store said I'm game. I thought that this is kind of different for someone to say this but it was cool. The guy that glanced at me we both said goodbye and he left and went out the door and when he got outside I looked at him, and he looked back at me and then proceeded to keep walking. It was as if he was checking me out and he did this too when he didn't come into the store right away and it's my feeling that he was checking me out and that he was interested in me.
I need some feedback on all of this. I have never met guys that would freely talk about something like all the gay stuff with someone in whom they don't know that well. It's my feeling that they were trying to see how I would react to the situation. I have also never had a guy glance at me before coming into a store, and nod their head and then proceed to come in a little later and also to have a guy on his way out look back at me when he was leaving.
The guy that I talked with a couple times has this glare like he looks at me as though he's interested in me or something. I honestly would say that I like both guys and that their both very attractive. I have never considered liking two guys at the same time but if you asked me which one I like better I would honestly say that I like both of them equally. I always am usually a one guy person, but for some reason I am finding that I am interested in both of them.
My question is why would they mention something about gay stuff and people thinking that their gay when they don't know me that well? My thought is that the reason why they brought it up was to see how I would react and it seems like both of them are interested in me. Also, the fact that this other guy looked at me and gave me a nod and then came in a little while later seemed like he was checking me out and then when he did the same thing on his way of leaving the store by looking back at me seemed as if he was showing that he was interested in me.
The other thing is that this guy I have talked with a couple times we starred at each other and it wasn't just like a regular thing where you just look at then go about other things. He has always looked at me and has been very friendly.
What do you all make of what I have had to say? Do you think that by either of these guys behaviors that it is showing that their interested in me? Does it sound like the fact that they mentioned that others think that their gay to stranger sounds ;like they were trying to see how I would react and to show that they both might be interested in me? What should I do when I meet with them and has anyone else ever had this experience? If anything obviously they went to some kind of gay oriented celebration not sure exactly what it was but for them to bring it up seems like their trying to make a statement or something to me. Any feedback and advice would be greatly appreciated. And like I say I like both of them and if the opportunity presented itself I would do things with both of them and just need to get some pointers as to how I would go about it and all. Thanks.
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