03-09-2012, 01:13 PM
My crystal ball is broken.
So I do not know how you figure we are going to know what is going on inside his head.
Hell you didn't even give me a name, nor a lock of hair or drop of blood to try the old wax doll trick (aka VooDoo Doll/Poppet) and see if I can divine his intent that way.
Even my Magic 8 ball is confused without pertinent data to draw from, such as his age, location, name.... It keeps on saying "Concentrate and ask again."
Time and time and time again people come here with basically the same issue. They want to know something about a person and expect us to use a Ouija board, a crystal ball, tarot cards, or some other arcane dark instrument to do divination to find out what is in this person's heart and mind.
There is no way at all that any of us knows for 100% certain what is going on here. None of us knows what he is thinking, feeling, etc. The only person on earth that can know with that high of accuracy is him.
Communication is the key to any and all relationships. A relationship is not just a love interest. Meaning you do not have to be a lover to someone to be in a relationship with them. That thing you and your boss have together - its a relationship - a working relationship. That thing your BFF and you has, its a relationship a friend relationship.
You boss cannot expect you to read his mind to know that that report has a deadline - he tells you. You BFF doesn't expect you to read his mind to know to meet for cocktails after work on Thursday this week. He tells you.
You cannot read the mind of this young love interest, you are going to have to ask him.
At this time I think you are both are relying on mind reading tricks in order to figure out what is on the mind of each other. Thus he cuddles momentarily, has a second thought and pulls back. After all he is trying to read your mind instead of asking 'Can we cuddle?'
Instead of asking him why he doesn't text you, you are asking virtual strangers, folk that most likely have never met him and even if we did, we most likely can't tell you what he is thinking/feeling.
Ask him.
Yes you set yourself up for rejection. Rejection is as common as grains of sand on a beach. It happens, get used to it.
Yet on the other hand he might (I can't say for certain, I refer to my broken crystal ball) but he might actually want more than just sex from you too.
So I do not know how you figure we are going to know what is going on inside his head.
Hell you didn't even give me a name, nor a lock of hair or drop of blood to try the old wax doll trick (aka VooDoo Doll/Poppet) and see if I can divine his intent that way.
Even my Magic 8 ball is confused without pertinent data to draw from, such as his age, location, name.... It keeps on saying "Concentrate and ask again."
Time and time and time again people come here with basically the same issue. They want to know something about a person and expect us to use a Ouija board, a crystal ball, tarot cards, or some other arcane dark instrument to do divination to find out what is in this person's heart and mind.
There is no way at all that any of us knows for 100% certain what is going on here. None of us knows what he is thinking, feeling, etc. The only person on earth that can know with that high of accuracy is him.
Communication is the key to any and all relationships. A relationship is not just a love interest. Meaning you do not have to be a lover to someone to be in a relationship with them. That thing you and your boss have together - its a relationship - a working relationship. That thing your BFF and you has, its a relationship a friend relationship.
You boss cannot expect you to read his mind to know that that report has a deadline - he tells you. You BFF doesn't expect you to read his mind to know to meet for cocktails after work on Thursday this week. He tells you.
You cannot read the mind of this young love interest, you are going to have to ask him.
At this time I think you are both are relying on mind reading tricks in order to figure out what is on the mind of each other. Thus he cuddles momentarily, has a second thought and pulls back. After all he is trying to read your mind instead of asking 'Can we cuddle?'
Instead of asking him why he doesn't text you, you are asking virtual strangers, folk that most likely have never met him and even if we did, we most likely can't tell you what he is thinking/feeling.
Ask him.
Yes you set yourself up for rejection. Rejection is as common as grains of sand on a beach. It happens, get used to it.
Yet on the other hand he might (I can't say for certain, I refer to my broken crystal ball) but he might actually want more than just sex from you too.