04-04-2012, 02:50 AM
gilhooly Wrote:Two guys your age sound perfect together. Look the guy directly in the eye and inform him that he will receive no special consideration from you for grades or anything else. If he likes you personally, he will accept without reservation. If he wants something special, he will give you the finger and tell you to get lost. Either way you are ahead. He may be the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. If he is a scumbag amd is planning to use you, you might as well find out now.
A guy should always take a chance when he is trying to figure out his life, sexuality or friendship. You owe first consideration to yourself. If you show me that, I will give you the consideration you deserve. Make sure he is worthy of any special help you might give.
Definite yeses and noes never work to anyone's advantage.
Thank you :redface:
I will surely tell him upfront that I will give no special consideration to him about his grades, and see what will happen the next few days..
You gave me a cool idea!