dfiant Wrote:Virginity is like a balloon...one prick and it's gone.
Hold onto your virginty until you are comfortable with someone. There are no rules as to what age anyone should lose their virginity...but it should be enjoyed by both because you only lose it once and you want to hold onto that special moment
Dad is so wise
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I agree with this and am actually doing this myself. I refuse to just "let it go" just so I can say I'm no longer a virgin.
I'm proud to be a virgin actually, because I'm still pure (lol :p ) and there's no pressure to have sex, because I haven't done it before.
Sort of the opposite of a sex addict, they need to have sex all the time, but that's only because they got addicted to it. Being a virgin, you can't get addicted to sex, so there's no pressure, dispite popular belief.
And to get philosophical with it, sex isn't the center of the universe. There are more important things. Personally, I would actually be okay with not having sex for my whole life if I didn't meet the right person, because I know it's not what makes a person, a person. Sure sex is great and everyone loves it, but you have to think about it in a different light. It only lasts for a moment, but things that make you happy last forever.
I would be okay with just my Music, because it makes me happy, there is nothing that can compare to the feeling I get when I play music, or even when I talk about it. Sex might be great, but it's not something I'd go out of my way for or worry about.
You should do things that make you happy, focus on living your life, pick up a hobby, don't worry about things that need not to be worried about. Sex doesn't equate to love, so you shouldn't go sex first, love later.
You have to Love the person you have Sex with & Not have Sex with the person you Love. - Me
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(Meaning: You need to love(first) who your going to have sex with, not have sex with them(afterwards) because you love them ;P )