I don't see myself actually attracted to men, I am only into giving and receiving head, kissing and body contact. I have had a few hookups through Craigslist but never any anal. Is there a segment of the bi/gay community that is like me?
Thanks in advance.
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You sound completely normal. I fell in love with a straight guy in NYC In 1968. I was hoping I was gay, Tom got me so excited. Tom was and remained straight. We both loved to experiment and play games. Without ever having seen a photo of 2 guys having sex, we invented blowjobs during an experiment. We tried another experiment, we invented 69ing. Wow. We want to become sex scientists.
He then wanted me to bottom. he was well hung and grimaced. Eventually something seemed to break in me and I exploded. When I finally got the nerve to look, I did nit see my kidneys or intestines hanging out, I just saw a lot of white semen. That was one of the most incredible experiments of my life. tom was a demanding scientist, he got me to 11 orgasms in a 24 hour period. Slow down I yelled. Your turning my dick into chopmeat.
We slowed down and guess what. I was not well hung like he was. But he liked the feel of my small cock going in and out. He loved the feel of a quiet orgasm while I fucked him. Everyone thought he was straight at work and a hard working guy. At night I calmed him down. i would whisper in his ear "Let me stiffen that up for you. You like it, don't you>" Tom never replied. He just lay their and giggled. No one on the planet knew Tom giggled during anal intercourse. No guy except me saw Tom's face while he was being fucked. You should have been there. It would give a dead man an erection. I loved to count the shudders in Tom's eyes as he had contractions. If you were there, you would know why I loved having sex with a man.
Someday, I should try to have sex with a gay guy but I always like straight guys better. They are harder to get into but definitely worth the effort. I liked that Tom never compared me to any other guy. i was truly a monogamous relationship. His heterosexual affairs always ended with Tom thinking he attracted golddiggers. He looked like a rich banker getting out of a limousine. To me, he looked only like my guy Tom.
Fourteen years after his death, he still gives me an erection thinking of him. A few minutes later I burst out laughing thinking of our weird experiments. We didn't understand why we loved each other. we couldn't believe that everyone was so gullible. We Told you we were CIA. FBI. INS, jewel thieves, gun runners, waiters, hotel critics, parts inspectors, food inspectors, restaurant critics, movie stars, actors, comedians, producers, directors, casting agents, lawyers, investigators, ghost hunters, We peed laughing so hard, you believed every thing we told you. Let's see. We had sex in so many weird locations, time of day, weather conditions, alone, public streets, tourist sites, churches, museums, theatres, elevators, roofs, basements, sewers you name it. Someday we wanted to try having sex in a bed. We figured normal gay guys did that. We tried every other possibility. I loss count of all the thins we could do while continuing ti have anal intercourse. I had fun teaching Tom to cook. I taught him with slow jabs how to flip foods while cooking.
No offense. Gay porn is really boring. I preferred having orgasms in cars going 100mph it is far more exciting than porn. Sometimes I feel guilty, so many people saw us have sex they may have all become homophobic watching us. You stared in disbelief. We performed without payment.
THERE ARE NO RULES EXCEPT THE RULES YOU AND YOUR GUY AGREE TO. YOU START BELIEVING IN GAY< STRAIGHT< LESBIAN RULES YOU WILL MISS OUT. SEX IS BEST WHEN YOU INVENT IT AND EXPERIENCE IT FOR THE FIRST TIME
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Labels are so passe anyway. I pretty much end up using something as simple as a single label when I'm trying to explain things to someone I don't really like (to end the conversation) or to someone who really isn't understanding.
You could easily be an above the waist gay person who dates women and your ideal mate is a transsexual librarian. Why narrow yourself down to a single word and try to cram all your wants into one single viewpoint?
That's not to say that all labels are bad. I am gay, and I find that describes me perfectly. I don't need to add anything to it. But you don't need to. For instance, I don't have a religion. I've been told that what I am is agnostic, but I don't really feel that fits with what I think. So whenever someone asks me what I believe in I say, "I haven't found the religion I want to follow yet." Which resonates with me so much better than agnostic.
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Wear humansexual for a while. New Century, New labels.
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First let me say welcome.
Why does every one insist on labeling themselves?
You are who you are .
Experimenting is part of life , we keep on learning and changing as we go through it.
There is nothing wrong with you.
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