Kissing on First Date, etc.

[Puck]

Personally, I'm a little reticent by nature on the first date. We're just getting to know one another, I have no idea what he's really like...and I certainly won't divine his true nature after only a couple of hours on a first date.

If I like him, and I want to continue seeing him, I'll give him a small kiss goodnight...like Pellaz said though, if you do that, you're giving him the signal to pursue forward.

But no, I don't kiss every guy I go out on a date with...if it turns out I'm not that interested, why would I?

[monk]

Personally, I'm a little reticent by nature on the first date.

That's not what you told me in bed last night!

[dfiant]

do whatever feels comfortable between 2 consenting adults. There are no rules. Guys can be soul partners and be together for years after sleeping together on the first.

But ultimately, as long as you and your date are comfortable...who gives a shit what anyone else thinks

[Puck]

That's not what you told me in bed last night!

Oh hush! I thought we were keeping that under wraps! You're making me look bad in front of the entire community!

[Rainbowmum]

I do not see anything wrong with a kiss on the cheek.
Really as long as you are not leaving them with the impression of more.

[ESLteacher]

To each their own. What works for one person may not work for the next ten.