don't call me insane again .... just need a serious advice

[mihai]

Aside from the drinking issue, I can totally understand Mihai wanting to find gay friends his own age. Not having that would truly suck. But complaining about old people being complainers is gonna get you nowhere bro! If you are the only young gay guy in your area I would first be shocked and second be moving!

They usually start saying " how i miss my 1st, if i was your age again i would have". If every guy you go out tells you this , you starting to think it's a drama.

[mihai]

Drama? I am "older" but detest drama. I would think the younger guys would have much more drama in their lives, and from what I've see, it's true.

I don;t think my situation is a drama... There are sme things i cannot understand... that;s why i even write here because this is a forum where people can answer by their own point a view and not to judje what you say

[Matty71]

I don;t think my situation is a drama... There are sme things i cannot understand... that;s why i even write here because this is a forum where people can answer by their own point a view and not to judje what you say

mihai: I am not judging anything you are saying or calling you dramatic. No.

I only meant that I would think there is more drama amongst younger guys. Maybe I am wrong.

Take care,
-Matthew-

[WaltHitman]

The good things about older guys are good - the bad things include RUTHLESS manipulation and looking at the blessings God sends them as MEAT to be tore up. Get away from any older guy that makes you feel weird in a bad way just as fast as you can. I have genuine love and good will towards my younger lovers because I am smart enuff to know that we may always be friends, but to try and keep or posess them is poison and a trap for both. If they're good, good. If not, to hell with old monsters and plenty of 'em are man. Sorry, plenty of US are I should say...

[ChadCoxRox]

Ah yes I can see how you'd get that quite a bit if most of the gay folk in your current area are mostly older. But hey, at least you're making someone's dream come true!!!??? When are you getting out of there? since you're so unhappy with the situation...

[ChadCoxRox]

If you are an isolated young gay male in a culture of mostly all older gay males and longing for a better situation...that may or may not be considered a drama... but that's not the point! The point is what can you do about it? It can't be easy or you would not take the time to describe it and talk about it here! I think you will find some relief eventually but the way you describe the whole entire scenario just "feels" like you have little to no options. I'd like to know more of your resources and plans.

[matty7]

if older people have this instinct to complain then stop talkin to them !!! its not rocket science

[zeon]

Best thing to do is not mix the drinks.. It has bad effects trust me and smoking a joint can alter judgement as well... I dont do joints but i do know that too much of anything INCLUDING WATER isnt good for you mister x

[mihai]

Best thing to do is not mix the drinks.. It has bad effects trust me and smoking a joint can alter judgement as well... I dont do joints but i do know that too much of anything INCLUDING WATER isnt good for you mister x

Don;t want to be rude ... but wtf?
seriously now


yeah right like it;s that easy... i can;t simply go over him on the street and sound like i am the wiseguy >.< <-done that and the next thing you know i was called a bad person by most of them , the sad part was that they didn;t even knowed me lol

[mihai]

Best thing to do is not mix the drinks.. It has bad effects trust me and smoking a joint can alter judgement as well... I dont do joints but i do know that too much of anything INCLUDING WATER isnt good for you mister x

i think my english wrinting must be really retarted.... :confused:
dude vodka is like a glass of wine at the restaurant for me... i drink 1 glass
i rarely mix drinks.
i like to smoke a joint, but i don;t like to get stoned, i taking 2smokes once 2 hours to free my mind for a bit.
donno what you have been learned to think... but this is me, living my life as i want too , even if it might sound bad. well at least i know what i want to do at every time haha:biggrin: