I don't know what to do and i really need your advice.

[Rumble88]

Hello guys. I'm gay and i rather not to tell anyone. Im at high school and i want to go to a college where i can be myself. I have a problem tough. Im ... hairy. Specıally my legs and ... back. I feel like this can really be a serious problem. Im 16 and i still have two years to college. What do you think i should do?

[Rawr]

Take up swimming, good exercise and a good explanation of why you need to shave?

[Buffylo]

You could just say it's more hygienic. People eat that stuff up.

[Rumble88]

thats an amazing idea and im a little bit scared too. What if college will be like high school?

[fenris]

Hi and Welcome mile:

maybe I have a translation problem .... You are hairy ... and where is the problem ?

For me a man has to be hairy .... thats nature.... I can´t see any reason for a body-shaving...

[Buffylo]

thats an amazing idea and im a little bit scared too. What if college will be like high school?

In what way are you afraid it will be like high school?

[Rumble88]

The idea of never having a real relationship is scary. Thats what im afraid of. And about my hair problem. im not saying no one can love me but i dont think its makin it any easier.

[zeon]

Helllo,
Sadly with body hair it is something that can become a pain and most men suffer some form of hair on them which they dont like but to be honest its natures way of providing us with our winter coats .. Now taking up something like swimming can be a good way to explain why its continually shaved however it comes at a cost... Yes it improves your healkkth but in the long run it might be worth maybe investing in some sort of treatment for hair removal and seeing where that gets you... Being 16 you are going through a lot of chyanges and a lot of them will make you feel like you dont like something about yourself but whatever it is learn toi love it a little before you decide what to do with it as it may just need trimming and not dug up completely

kindest regards

zeon x

[Rumble88]

zeon i get what you said. i know its natural. im just gonna feel more confertable when im with someone. and what do you mean by trimming? im looking for a way just for two days but so far people says creams only make hairs thicker. arm pits and perinal region is okay but i dont want to shave my whole body. so any suggestions?

[fenris]

The idea of never having a real relationship is scary. Thats what im afraid of. And about my hair problem. im not saying no one can love me but i dont think its makin it any easier.

Why you should not find the man in your life ? I have found one.... and you will find one too.. if the time is right. Don´t rush to find one .... every time has their good and bad sides ... with or without a partner... enjoy the time without partner... you are free, you can do what you want ..you can learn about yourself ... and when the time is right and you find your partner enjoy this time, too.

And hairy or not ... is a second thing.... if you love someone or someone loves you it is not important if you or he is more or less hairy. You can talk about it.... if someone think you or he looks out better shaved or not... you can talk about. As I met my man he was shaved (beard) and I like beards...so it was not a problem for him to have a beard. Or - another example - I don´t like perfume... he like it ... so we talked about ... and if he is here he don´t use it....
For him it is important that I cook if he is here.... so .. no problem....

In a relationship you have to talk about many things ... and if you grow older you have to talk about much more things... thats normal