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[Blue]

Well, lets hope that talking and being more open with him has put an end to that. I hope you have both gained trust in each other and, that you will build on that and, not keep secrets anymore.

[ChadCoxRox]

It may not be considered cheating to some certain degree, but it's easy to see that it can become neglectful if it contributes to the closing of the communication and mutuality in the relationship. On the surface, it's easy to explain it away as exploration, curiosity, titillation, etc, etc...but we're talking about the impact of relationshipping. So if it enhances that process I say it's good, if it detracts from it I say bad. I'd end with admitting the lines between the good and the bad might blurr and switch back and forth and this would be a sign of the natural process I'm pointing out AND a gauge for discerning the degree of impact in expressing health in relationshipping. Hope you'll expect interest in better, stronger communication if the relationship is to survive and if there is resistance there it will be the perfect guide for deciding what is worth enduring and what might be a likely waste of life!

[lizzielee]

i never said there was anything wrong with porn, but what made me mad is that the porn replaced me and he tried to hide it from me.

It would be good if he could of been open about it but I suppose most people aren't.
Take care..........and all the best with this......