11-16-2012, 01:01 PM
Better to leave it be mate, you took 1 step, now let him take the next, like chess. Me as a closeted gay man I must say that I would've felt somewhat unease if I received a text like that. I meet one day my brothers girlfriends best friend at a bar downtown last summer, she was chatty and happy so I greeted her and we talked. But then out of the blue she asked if I had a boyfriend (She did not ask bluntly, but she did ask me), and I didn't exactly took it the best way. Although I swallowed my emotions and talked for 1-2 minutes more, did I couldn't stop thinking about it and I've never biked home so fast in panic. Either way the subject might be ratter touchy to him, so just give him time, if he ever feels to talk about it
Sometimes you need a bit of chaos in your life to be able to shrug off pitiful disdain about something meaningless.