Date or Hate

[southbiochem]

I like when people say no to me...

I don't mind hearing no constantly...and even if it's something I would want to, I have so little self-esteem that I just go with it..

but if your issue is not being able to do that, oh my, you're in good hands, cause I rarely force people into things, or demands things...

Anyway.....I kinda get anxiety-going-into-panic-attacks in the presence of massive crowds....and it's only getting worse with the years :frown: D/H

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Date - however if it is getting worse I strongly urge you to see therapy to find out why it is getting worse.

I have an irrational fear of planes crashing when I am on them - no I do not fear flying, its gravity that trips me up. Hate or date?

[southbiochem]

Date....if we were ever to travel, I wouldn't mind trains or buses....

I have sat on a bus for 36 hours from Valparaiso to Montevideo in Uruguay...It would have taken me 2 hours in a plane but I prefered the bus.

I though I was overcoming it but I stumbled into a crowd today, I wasn't prepared and all I managed was to sat in a corner crying. It's happening more often rather than declining now

I'm overall not capable of dealing with the "outside" world unless forced D/H

[mbennet35]

Date. I prefer to be home alone. So we can be at home alone together? Sound good?


I would rather spend a nice night at home reading, cuddling and watching movies than going out. D/H

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Date. I'm a homebody myself.

Aside from grocery shopping I haven't left the property in 3 months - Hate or date?

[mbennet35]

Date. We could have some serious cuddle time


Cuddling and hugging for me are sometimes better than sex. D/H

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Date: I am that way too - granted sex is grand and all of that, but snuggling/cuddling/casual touch are fundamental to me in a relationship. I wither and die without touch.

I might never say 'I love you' but I will show you my love in a thousand insignificant little ways - hate or date?

[partis]

Date - that means a lot more to me than three words and nothing insignificant :-)

Hate or date - my lip balm is essential.

[southbiochem]

Could not care less about what you put in your face (and it is a nice one, btw) so date

I don't know how to drive and I'm not interested to learn (and if you do, no, I don't want you driving me everywhere, my legs and the public transport are just fine) D/H

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Oh That's fine, I do know how to drive, but due to my minor habit of spacing out for a second or two (Petit-mal/Absence Seizures) No state or government in their right mind would grant me a driver's license.... So I don't drive....

....Often.....

I have epilepsy which has its fun side (see above) - it also has a darker side as in I have already had one episode of status epilepticus. Apparently having had just one such event means it can happen again and without warning and could very well not end too terribly well. Hate or date?