03-16-2013, 08:34 PM
Bowyn Aerrow Wrote:You would be amazed at how more often than not they are attracted to 'mini-me's' meaning guys who have worked out and built up muscle and like to do the same things they do... AKA masculine guys. Few are actually attracted to twinks or boyish guys "pretty bois".
I was the skinny, nerdy twink and cursed with boyish looks... It was far harder for me to find 'real men' who wanted anything to do with me than it was for my 'butch' friend who would go with me to those sorts of bars to keep me company. That friend was into tall, skinny, nerdy types :biggrin: But we were so incompatible.
In case you are wondering, the places to find these sorts of guys are bear bars and Leather Bars.
Leather doesn't always mean BDSM, there is a lot of guys who dress in leather and like leather (chains and the like) but do not participate in dungeons and whole sale floggings.
Um Biker bars too, but those are usually more straight in direction, though a few places there are more gay leaning biker bars.
Oh and truckers - lots of truckers appear to be at least bisexual or more open about the whole thing. Plenty of gay ones too.
The ONLY thing Ive seen with gay men, is that they want a carbon copy of themselves, or what they percieve themselves to be.
Bears only want bears, or bear types.
Daddies only want daddy types.
Skinny bois only want skinny boi types.
Fat guys only fat guy types.
This is one of the few "gay" things I have never understood.
I sure as hell DONT want anybody like me. I have a preference for pretty much the exact opposite of me.
I like daddies, but daddies dont like me.
Im a fat guy, but I dont like fat guys.
Im old fashioned, I like men men, but they dont like me...only each other.
I see this is one of the major reasons there are few long term relationships in the homo world, but I dont understand WHY they are only attracted to themselves and not other types.