aours Wrote:But do you have any experiences with dating men with below average penises? Would you mind topping with a guy who: 1) loved bottoming, 2) was in good shape, 3) had an attractive personality and face, and 4) had a small penis? Thanks
Welcome to GS! That's a great question. Almost all guys are concerned about their penis size at some point.
To answer your question: no, I would not mind at all topping a guy like you described. Personality is way more important to me than size. Even more important is that we enjoy a lot of the same things in life, respect our differences, inspire each other, can relax and have fun together. Full disclosure though, I never have dated or had sex with a guy with a very small dick. Not because of size though, just my own limited experience.
Watching porn or apps like grindr will only reinforce a skewed emphasis on the importance of dick size. Good sex and relationships have much more to do with what's going on in your head and your heart.
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Geminize Wrote:Welcome to GS! That's a great question. Almost all guys are concerned about their penis size at some point.
To answer your question: no, I would not mind at all topping a guy like you described. Personality is way more important to me than size. Even more important is that we enjoy a lot of the same things in life, respect our differences, inspire each other, can relax and have fun together. Full disclosure though, I never have dated or had sex with a guy with a very small dick. Not because of size though, just my own limited experience.
Watching porn or apps like grindr will only reinforce a skewed emphasis on the importance of dick size. Good sex and relationships have much more to do with what's going on in your head and your heart.
I completely second this: Good sex and relationships have much more to do with what's going on in your head and your heart. The brain is, after all, the biggest sex organ in the human body, lol.
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Between 5-6" isn't really particularly small, it's in the average range as far as any studies on the subject have found. The kind of people who include penis size in what they are looking for in a man are the kind of people who are really only looking for hook ups.
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Penis size is irrelevant if you really care for the other person. I can't stand people who talk or boast about their or another person's penis size is.
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the right guy will be more intrigued with your personality and who you are all over... body and mind... that if you let him get that far, he's not gonna care about how big it is, just that it's yours
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Thank you, everyone. I know everyone's different and has different interests, but it's nice to know there's a certain demographic of "tops" that wouldn't care either way.
Of course I'm not going to go out and wave it around now, but after reading your responses, I feel a tad bit better about the idea of broadening my horizons and dating. Thanks again!
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its a balance for me:
naked look in the mirror at your self, if you will. That physically is the person you want to date.
VS;
his x-large penis is going to be up your bum sometime soon in the relationship.
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As much as I've wanted to experience bottoming for those with larger endowments, most guys I've been with have been average sized (5.5-6.5 range)
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aours Wrote:Hi everyone,
I'm new here and I'm sure this question has been frequently asked, but I'd like to see answers about my specific situation. I'm a 21 year old male and I'm self-conscious about the size of my member. I'm about 5.5'' with far below average girth. Although I've only had sexual experiences with one person (a friend, quite well-endowed), he appeared to enjoy it a lot. We still do it, too. And that makes me feel better. Plus I really enjoy bottoming and I don't enjoy topping at all because I feel like I would get a little bored and lose focus.
So, basically, everything has worked out for me so far, but I'm literally petrified to date. Beyond that single friend, I've never taken the extra step to see other guys because I don't think I could ever take it to the next step. I'm afraid to flirt at parties, online dating, any sexual advances in general intimidate me.
This is a very open question, I apologize. But do you have any experiences with dating men with below average penises? Would you mind topping with a guy who: 1) loved bottoming, 2) was in good shape, 3) had an attractive personality and face, and 4) had a small penis?
Honesty and detailed situations are great!
Thanks
Despite the fact that probably 80% of all male's online claim to have a 12 inch penis.. 5-6" really is the average. To answer your question though, yes, of course. Penis size is way down on my list of wanted/desired attributes.  .
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I don't have any experience or anything so you don't have to take this serious but if you ask me 5.5'' is the perfect size, i am actually afraid of big ones. I can't say i like pain.
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