Gay community and penis size

[sheffield]

Am I the only one who admits that I like and want a big cock? I'm bottom and I love anal sex with a top who has a big and hard cock. There, I said it. Surely skills are also important, but there's definitely some really enjoyable feelings in bottoming for a big one, and those feelings can't be replaced with skills. Some may call me shallow, but don't we all have some features which we find attractive in a man? Why is it more wrong to say that you want big cock than, for example, to say that you want a slim body type?

[Liam]

I have no experience bottoming, but from fingering I know that large is a no go.
I'm about 6.3" and I think that's enough. But something that bothers me is that "I'm a grower, not a shower"... That means I always have to wait until I'm hard.

[Brendan]

5.5 is really close to average size so you really shouldn't worry about it.

[BathEd]

If you are a bottom, why would your penis size matter? besides, 5.5 is normal, this is average, we usually tend to see the size much smaller than it is, from the angle.

Just because you are bottom doesn't mean guys are not going to be interested in your penis. I'm top and I love sucking, masturbating and generally playing with cocks. I don't think I'm unusual. Taking it up the arse isn't the only thing you can do with a penis!

At the end of the day none of us are physically perfect (whatever your idea of perfection is) - we could all be either slimmer, more toned, more muscular, taller, have a model's face or, yes, have a larger penis. You don't have to pretend it's not an issue when clearly it is, but it's not the issue and we all have to accept who we are. We all have to accept our limitations and those of our partners. Most people would be lying if they said physical characteristics including penis size didn't matter to them, but it would be an extreme case to rule out someone just because of it.

I wouldn't let it be a barrier to dating or let it define you as a bottom.

[Woollyhats]

I wouldn't overly mind. A super small stubby penis would be disappointing, but the thought of a giant ridiculous penis is actually more of a turn off than a turn on. For starters, it would probably be extremely difficult to take orally (without gagging) or anally (because I think if something that was literally a foot long went in there I would die, yes I'm aware that some people have probably done it and it freaks me out.) That's just my explicit two cents.

Also, I find other things to be more attractive anyway. Body size, facial features, corny as it sounds - personality, etc. Not a big deal.

Edit: And by stubby I mean like, the length of the beginning of your pinkie to the joint, which I saw once in a horrible porn video (I really hope things like that don't exist in most people, because it was just wrong). End of of edit. I feel 30% more superficial than normal right now. ._.

[rover330]

are you for real man? lol

if anything, it should feel good and be comfortable for both parties involved. sometimes I wish it was smaller.

and one shouldn't be a walking cliche' about penis size. please.

sometimes it can be so big it can become uncomfortable for one party or the other. one's masculinity and maleness are not measured by the size of the penis... I've met small guys who were much more of a man than big penis guys who were jerks... lol

[NorthLondonLad]

In my experience huge dicks are usually attached to huge dicks. You sound great and you shouldn't worry about size and girth.

If the guy you're seeing is only interested in the size of your package, then is he really worth going out with?

[NorthLondonLad]

5.5 is really close to average size so you really shouldn't worry about it.

5.5 is exactly average looking at the latest research....

[Wade]

Huge dicks are usually attached to huge dicks.

Perfectly said. Thank you.

[Pix]

I prefer innies to outies. :tongue: