Nope, all the men I have been with have been bent, most bent more than others. Meaning Bi or Gay identified and comfortable with their identity.
I have heard too many horror stories how a 'curious' straight guy ends up blaming the gay/bi for 'taking his purity' and other things. I personally don't want to deal with that sort of drama. Besides which I am relationship oriented. I look for men/date men (real dates not an euphemism for sex) who are clearly defined and also are looking for a relationship.
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I look forward to the day they stop putting labels on them selves. Just not there yet.
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I've swapped oral with a curious straight guy, but things never went past meeting 2 or three times because he made it seam like we had to always meet when he wanted to and not when I was actually available to meet. I can't say this is true for all straight guys, it's just my experience with one individual.
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I am still the best of friends with my friend Chuck even though his wife caught us having sex a couple of times. She hates me lol.
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I've never been with a straight person but some have been interested in me. And I don't mean that in an arrogant "everyone wants me" kind of way - but a lot of them seem extremely curious and I'm the only non-straight guy around... of course I decline things like that.
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I have been with straight men before, most of them were black, but i did my best to make sure they were single. I dont want to have sex with someone who is in a relationship, engaged, married etc. that goes for guys who are gay or straight. I dont want to be with someone who is cheating on their loved one with me. I know how bad that would hurt. Although i ask if they are in a relationship in good faith, i wouldnt doubt it if ive been lied to
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Generally speaking, I find myself skeptical whenever yet another straight guy brags about seducing lesbians and even turning her straight as well as plenty of gay guys who say they've done the same to straight men. If so many men really have accomplished this then why is it I've NEVER met a gay man who said he was strictly and unquestionably straight or straight woman she she'd always been lesbian until a magic penis entered their bodies?
It's especially suspicious that so many men think if he wants someone then he'll project his feelings into the object of his desire and decides that it's all mutual. This is so bad that one convicted child molester I met once briefly (while he was very drunk) claimed all 10-year-olds were trying to seduce him, but not any female of any other age, only the 10-year-olds. And while that's extreme it seems similar I see to many men doing.
Not to say that I've never heard of women being equally delusional (it's especially hard to say about stalkers, many of whom believe those they stalk secretly want them and are just playing hard to get while leading them on, as women are less likely to be reported for it), but I've NEVER heard a woman say, "I've turned gay guys straight" before...and while I've heard OF women who get a thrill out of seducing straight women (and then there was "lesbian as a political orientation" back in the feminism of the 70s which strikes me as something else, though insane in its own way), I've yet to meet one that way. The idea just seems odd to me.
That said, I can believe in experimentation (especially drunken one night stands), I've met one straight guy who attempted to make himself bisexual and failed (but did enter into gay relationships before he gave it up), one lesbian I used to know had an odd experience of falling for a guy once (though she went after him, not the other way around, and it ended badly, and she called herself bisexual after that), and there are women who falsely claim to be lesbian from a variety of reasons (from trying to get men to leave them alone to actually playing a twisted reverse psychology seduction as many women know lesbians are more appealing to men), and of course there are the bisexuals who are pressured to identify as gay or straight depending "which side of the fence they're on at the moment," so I don't automatically discount when a guy claims to have changed (or at least seduced) someone of an incompatible orientation (though if they claim to have done it more than once then my BS detector starts beeping pretty hard :tongue: ), but I am convinced a lot of men believe their penises are a lot more magical than they really are.
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I have been picked up on by men who said they were either gay or bi, but the sex says it all. Sraight men are BORING in bed and that is the big giveaway. There is a big difference between having sex and actually making love and many straight guys do not understand that. They see it as the same, get on top and ride hard. So I have learned that if a guy cannot make love then we cannot have sex. Issue closed.
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Truth!