How do I tell my roommate my true feelings?

[EvenOlderButWiser]

Let it be and move on.
The man is in a NGZ .( no go zone)

More like no GAY zone ;-)

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[jonestom9876]

First you need to start by telling him you have an interest in men. I wouldn't come out and say its in him necessarily but you need to somehow hint or just tell him. Based on his reaction you should be able to get a much better gauge and your situation. Until then you are kind of left guessing what, if any, feelings he may have and your cycle will just continue.