04-03-2013, 03:05 AM
My Opinion- Most first time lovers make the mistake of trying to recreate what they see in porn films, which is the exact WRONG way to go. Use the time to explore. Talk. Encourage conversation. Ask him if he likes this or that. Take your time. Really explore each other's bodies and try to find out what turns both of you on. You don't have to do anal. You can also simulate anal without actual entry. Make a night of it. Allow for time to sleep together, to wake up, to play again. Enjoy the discovery. Also, don't forget that sex is NOT just about the dick. Earlobes can be immensely sexy. Explore everything: lips, nipples, arms, neck, tummy, balls, inner thighs...just enjoy.