Hi Tyler,
First of all the bible can be interpreted into
anything a person wants it to be interpreted as. Unfortunately humans (not God) have this tendency to find ways to make others feel less than, or worse to make themselves feel like they are better than.
The history of the Christian Church clearly demonstrates that at one time or another some group of people have been scapegoated. The Inquisition, the witch burnings, the Crusades - all clearly show what men can do when given a little power and a little time to utilize the bible to their own devices.
The bible has been used in times past to justify slavery, to justify keeping women virtual slaves to their husband, to justify wars... its not the bible, it the people who use the bible.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/3205727.stm attempts to put both the pro and anti-gay spin on the scriptures. There are whole books and even a few sites that expound on each verse and paint a wholly different picture of those scriptures that are used to make you feel less than because you happen to be gay.
To get you started in reading, I suggest this site:
http://www.gaychurch.org/
http://www.gaychurch.org/Gay_and_Christi...an_yes.htm has links to each and every scripture used to abuse and beat down homosexuals where a new light is shed on each scripture.
The story of David and Jonathan is a touching story which the Church has tried to tell us 'oh they only had a Bromance' - Forgetting that they declared their love for each other was greater than love of women, forgetting that exceeded means (oh sure the church tries to hide that one) forgetting for a moment that the Hebrew account (upon which the Old Testament is based) the meanings of words are quite different and leads us to conclude that David and John were lovers - as in homosexual lovers.
http://www.allfaith.com/Grace/jon.html
Naomi and Ruth are another clear gay couple, this time lesbians...
http://www.wouldjesusdiscriminate.org/bi...naomi.html
And Jesus helped a gay couple without even saying anything about 'Hey you two, stop being gay!' - and that couple are? The Centurion and his Pais.
http://www.gaychristian101.com/Gay-Centurion.html
I suggest you find a gay affirming Church in your area:
http://www.gaychurch.org/find_a_church/f...church.htm
Actually if there are more than one, go, visit each and whenever possible pull the pastor/minister of the church aside and ask them what their take is on Gods Plan for humans and how the Scriptures affect us as LGBT.
I do hope you will find a balance in your life. I hope your journey will lead to better understanding of the bible and how it has been affected by humanities touch all of these centuries.