Bottoms don't get hard!

[partisan]

Calm down. Everyone has their preferences. I prefer masculine or androgynous people. Effeminacy seems to be a turn-off for me too, but hey I'm sexually open and at some point someone might change my opinion on that. Does anyone even care about this discussion? Whether you're masculine, feminine or somewhere in-between just screw who you want to screw and let other people do the same. If a person wants a feminine bottom and you don't match that and therefore won't get to sleep with him that's not a problem. That's just something to accept. The same rejection would occur if a feminine top pursued you so get over it.

No, its the way some of the laungage is used, like this - im GAY because i like MEN! not feminin men. no you like men because you like men, do you think effeminite gay men should become straight, would that make them happier

[Miles]

I don't think I have ever really experienced a hard bottom....a firm bottom yes...It would also depend on the person, you wouldn't expect a fat person to be a firm bottom, it would take a bit of exercise to be a firm bottom, not quiet a hard bottom.

Me arse be made of steel and can take anything you throw at it!

[BathEd]

I think too many things have been mixed up here.

First of all, I think most bottoms definitely get hard. Well that's certainly my experience anyway. I don't like to say something unusual is wrong, but I think maybe something is wrong if you're a man who doesn't get hard during sex, either physically or psychologically (say anxiety etc).

That's a totally different thing in my opinion from being feminine or masculine etc. It seems from studies that naive observers can tell to some extent (ie better than by pure chance) who is top and who is bottom (though as most gay/bi guys are more or less versatile i'm not sure exactly how that works) so there is probably some truth in the stereotypes, but so many exceptions that it's only a very rough guide!

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Everyone was born a human being and equal in my eyes.

HA! I was not born human and I find that statement to be offensive!

We elves are NOT amused - no Sir, not amused at all.

You racist you!

:tongue:

[Sylph]

shut your face gurl
i just got annoyed when people link this kinda of behavior/desire to a position. it could be a top who is the cross dresser.
fyii love bottoming

Umm...Sis, who you calling Gurl?

You ain't my girlfriend :p jk. You can be my girlfriend <3. ... One of them

[jpazli123]

HA! I was not born human and I find that statement to be offensive!

We elves are NOT amused - no Sir, not amused at all.

You racist you!

:tongue:

Terribly sorry, in my experiece (my experience is limited to legolas, gawd that boy is fine) are even better than humans, therefore I hold you in high esteem.

[dfiant]

Me arse be made of steel and can take anything you throw at it!

Darts?????

[SolemnBoy]

Me arse be made of steel and can take anything you throw at it!

Nuclear bombs?

[Wade]

Me arse be made of steel and can take anything you throw at it!

Ninja stars?

[Sylph]

Me arse be made of steel and can take anything you throw at it!

Vin Diesel? Or LL Cool J? Or both :O? Lol