bisexuals?

[Kiid]

TEHE Your sexuality fluctuates!

This means you're sexuality is fluid. YES SEXUALITY IS NOT A SET THING!
ALSO SEXUALITY TO ME IS AN IDEA!
NOT SET IN STONE
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Pretty much to conclude you can be gay one day and straight the next day.
HOMOSEXUALITY CAN BE A PAHSE

This post isn't going to get much attention I can tell so I said this.
AND ALL THAT I SPEAK IS TRUE!
I've met a lot of people in my life and a lot of queer people. I've talked to them and listened to them. This is what I gather. ALSO

HANK Don't be afraid to be YOU!

Peace.

[Kiid]

OK, now you pissed me off. By "active bisexual" I assume you mean someone who wants to f*ck anything that moves on two legs..?

I have been an active bisexual my entire life, knowing that both men and women turn me on. If you're gay does that mean you want to f*ck every guy within your visual range?! I suspect not.

Kindly grant me the consideration that my sexuality does not make me a slut, with no capacity for loyalty or monogamous love. I was married to a woman for 19 years, and now I have a boyfriend of 7 months. I never cheated on either of them, not that the opportunity didn't present itself. I am loyal to a fault, whether you believe that is possible or not.

I agree with daz. I'mma miss him. I've thought about this too. if you are in a monogamous relationship you cannot be actively bisexual. DOIN TEH ACT OF BISEX WHILE WITH ONE PERSON....

unless that one person is actually two people of different sexs u.u

[Tyrion]

I'm bailing on this. It is always the same politically correct fuckwits with the same chants in threads like this.

I believe one thing, you believe another so why not go all fundamentalist and shoot me.


The lot of you can blow it out your collective PC arses.


He'll, why don't I just leave gay speak all together because I am surrounded by the same dumb cunts in real life that I'm finding here and hoped to come here and get away from?


Fuck off the lot of you, see ya

Damn you, not all of us are "dumb cunts". Come back damn you. Some of us <3 you lol. Seriously though... undelete your account, right meow..

[megumidesu]

That is your belief and I respect that.


Please show me the same respect for my beliefs and please try refrain from degrading ones belief with stupid comments

i don't think my comment was any more stupid than yours . your comment denies the existence of people (some of whom are on this forum) or generalizes them as people who are completely incapable of monogamous relationships - something i find incredibly stupid when i personally know people who are bisexual and in such relationships .
you've been told personal accounts of real bisexuality as well as other things , yet you refuse to open your mind to the slightest possibility that you might be wrong . so i'm not going to respect your beliefs .




(i know that he's gone , but i'm going to address him in case he decides to come back lol)

[Kiid]

TEHE Your sexuality fluctuates!

This means you're sexuality is fluid. YES SEXUALITY IS NOT A SET THING!
ALSO SEXUALITY TO ME IS AN IDEA!
NOT SET IN STONE
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Pretty much to conclude you can be gay one day and straight the next day.
HOMOSEXUALITY CAN BE A PAHSE

This post isn't going to get much attention I can tell so I said this.
AND ALL THAT I SPEAK IS TRUE!
I've met a lot of people in my life and a lot of queer people. I've talked to them and listened to them. This is what I gather. ALSO

HANK Don't be afraid to be YOU!

Peace.

BUMP~~~~~~~~~

[SolemnBoy]

Okay so I'm starting to feel a little bad, although I don't see how sarcasm and an accusation of generalization can be more degrading than the denial of bisexuality and insults like "dumb cunts". In any case, it's not as if there's any point in talking about it anymore.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Hi Hank,

How many relationships have you been in? I don't mean casual hook-ups for sex, or a week to a fortnight long 'fling' I mean a serious commitment that resulted in moving in together, or proposal of marriage sort of serious type relationship. I'm talking where at the time you saw yourself spending the rest of your life with that person.

If you have been in that sort of relationship, what was your self identification of your sexual preference with them? Did you still feel you were bi, or did you feel that you had settled gay or straight?

I suspect that when the right person comes along that you want to spend your whole life with, that you will 'settle' on black or white, I mean straight or gay.... Not so much because you have lost interest in sex, but because you identify yourself as part of a couple and it will be far easier for you to stick to whatever expected sexual orientation that being with that person means.

[hank]

Hi Hank,

How many relationships have you been in? I don't mean casual hook-ups for sex, or a week to a fortnight long 'fling' I mean a serious commitment that resulted in moving in together, or proposal of marriage sort of serious type relationship. I'm talking where at the time you saw yourself spending the rest of your life with that person.

If you have been in that sort of relationship, what was your self identification of your sexual preference with them? Did you still feel you were bi, or did you feel that you had settled gay or straight?

I suspect that when the right person comes along that you want to spend your whole life with, that you will 'settle' on black or white, I mean straight or gay.... Not so much because you have lost interest in sex, but because you identify yourself as part of a couple and it will be far easier for you to stick to whatever expected sexual orientation that being with that person means.

I have never lived with a lover. I have only ever had the long term vision with one person. A lady, who to this day could still be with. But that person could easily be a guy. It takes a lot to get me to that point. It helps that I knew her for about twenty years.

[Rawr]

I think to some extent everyone is omnisexual. So far instance:

A hetero person may be: 99% into the opposite sex and 1% into the same sex.
A Bisexual person may be: 40-60% into the opposite sex and 40-60% Into the same sex.
A Gay person may be: 1-20% into the opposite sex and 80-99% into the same sex.
etc... It's all labels really, avoiding confusion for some, creating more confusion for others.

The reason I put a Gay Person with a bigger percentage of attraction to the opposite sex is because I think gay people may be more open minded than a hetero people being attracted to the same sex.

I think depending on the ratio of percentage, the more likely you're going to have phases of desiring one or the other. I have small phases now and then, but I just roll with it and fantasize on which ever phase I'm in. Most of the time I'm pretty neutral though, so it doesn't phase me much.

[hank]

When it comes to bisexuality, to me it is an orientation. Just like any other. Can a person be homosexual if they are a virgin?

It's not based on acts but attraction.