04-02-2008, 07:24 PM
hey guys
i know i havent posted on here much but i kinda need a friendly chat and i know you guys will be lovely to me
you see, there is this girl that i was kinda seeing a few years back and she totally messed with me to the extent that i stopped eating and that i couldnt sleep and more. The eating and the sleeping wasnt on purpose at all it just happened. Anyway, she came over yesterday and one thing lead to another and now im feeling that i am going in the same way as i was before, but this time i know its happening but i cant stop myself. i have totally fallen for her and i think its because that i know that i cant have her and that i shouldnt have her that im drawn to her even more. I mean i dont have many mates at the moments and they really dont want me to go down that route but i cant help it
she is coming over tomorrow and what i want from her and what she wants from me are two completely different things and i know that i wont get my way. my first piece of help is how can i say to her that i dont want her to come over tomorrow and secondly has anyone here been in the same situation and how did you deal with it?
i know i havent posted on here much but i kinda need a friendly chat and i know you guys will be lovely to me
you see, there is this girl that i was kinda seeing a few years back and she totally messed with me to the extent that i stopped eating and that i couldnt sleep and more. The eating and the sleeping wasnt on purpose at all it just happened. Anyway, she came over yesterday and one thing lead to another and now im feeling that i am going in the same way as i was before, but this time i know its happening but i cant stop myself. i have totally fallen for her and i think its because that i know that i cant have her and that i shouldnt have her that im drawn to her even more. I mean i dont have many mates at the moments and they really dont want me to go down that route but i cant help it
she is coming over tomorrow and what i want from her and what she wants from me are two completely different things and i know that i wont get my way. my first piece of help is how can i say to her that i dont want her to come over tomorrow and secondly has anyone here been in the same situation and how did you deal with it?