Oh my! His penis was uncommonly LARGE!

[Beaux]

Ok. Busted. Me and my big mouth. :-(
UGH. I am such an IDIOT. Stupid Beaux! Stupid! Stupid! Stupid!

[KawaiiKitty]

Ok. Busted. Me and my big mouth. :-(
UGH. I am such an IDIOT. Stupid Beaux! Stupid! Stupid! Stupid!

yep this is what happens when you decide to lie and cheat...you will eventually slip up and the truth will come out.

Not trying to judge you but I think you owe it to your bf to tell him what happened even if it didnt mean anything. If you do care at all about your bf that is. I cant even fathom cheating on my bf or having it "just happen" no matter if that was the intent or not the cheating still did happen. I dont think most people who cheat, set out to cheat, it "just happens" I just dont get that mentality other than it being a coping mechanism they tell themselves so they dont feel as guilty about cheating.

[Nick9]

Hi, under no circumstances, don't tell your partner. I honestly don't understand this desire to share EVERYTHING. We don't cheat with my partner but I don't think that you have to be one soul and one body with your partner. I would like to know if my partner was not happy in our relationship, but not that he got drunk and...What would I do with the information? Be hurt? Confront him? I wouldn't breakup with him anyway. As for your friendship, you know each other for so long that somehow I doubt that there was sexual desire. I see it more as curiosity that won't go any further.

The anon thing, it has happened to so many people already that I think that we may ask Andy to make the option more visible.

[Nick9]

I am sure many won't agree with me and I didn't used to think like that. But we have been through so much over the 20 years, not because of our doing but because the circumstances we couldn't influence, that I know that the only reason for a divorce for me would be if he wanted it. Otherwise, he is the one I want to grow old with.

[ardus]

I agree with you nick

Here's why, I'm not anti relationship, but I'm nit hardwired for one man, no one else my whole life. I need variety, otherwise I will not be happy. I am very big on being upfront with people about who I am, so all my men know this going in.

That being said, it sounds to me like you had a fun, flirtatious adventure, and that you probably won't be going there again because you feel bad about it. I don't see the need to make your partner feel bad too if it is just going to be a one time thing.

All relationship monsters feel free to flame me lol. ;-)

Richard

[jimcrackcorn]

I've been in a relationship for 37 years. If I got drunk one night and had a sexual encounter with some one other than my husband,,,, I certainly wouldn't tell him!!!!!

Mistakes happen during a relationship, just don't make the mistakes a regular thing. Say two hail-Mary's, take an aspirin, and tell donkey dick to keep his nasty parts to himself.

And, take a tape measure with you next time, I want accurate width & height of this monster

[LONDONER]

I've been in a relationship for 37 years. If I got drunk one night and had a sexual encounter with some one other than my husband,,,, I certainly wouldn't tell him!!!!!

Mistakes happen during a relationship, just don't make the mistakes a regular thing. Say two hail-Mary's, take an aspirin, and tell donkey dick to keep his nasty parts to himself.

And, take a tape measure with you next time, I want accurate width & height of this monster

Just taking something you said in a differnt post:

What can I say,,, I don't like climbing "COLD CYLINDRICAL OBJECTS" (smile)...

So warm cylindrical objects are OK?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Still waiting on those pictures.....

On a more serious note... This drinking habit of yours appears to be starting to be a problem.... perhaps you need to check your drinking habit and reevaluate whom you drink with and why you drink until you are 'pissed'.

[KawaiiKitty]

really guys? I honestly cant believe the majority of you are saying its ok to cheat on your partner and then not own up to it to him. And you wonder why the public perception of the gay community is still that of a promiscuous slut in 2013.

[Nick9]

really guys? I honestly cant believe the majority of you are saying its ok to cheat on your partner and then not own up to it to him. And you wonder why the public perception of the gay community is still that of a promiscuous slut in 2013.

Nobody said it is ok to cheat.
I assure you, the majority of the straight couples would tell you the same. It should have not happened.
It happened - big mistake.
Now, why would you want your partner to know? To hurt him? What should he do with the information?