How many of you are vers?

[luvitnow]

My short experience I have only bottomed.I see no need to try different.I enjoy the prostate orgasms my man gives me.It basically brought the gay out of me.Did I mention I also love to suck him off.My biggest pleasure is hearing his moans while he cumming.It gives me a thrill.Bottom is my choice.

[luvitnow]

My man has never given me a choice.He just told me what to do,what to expect and did it to me.He just satisfies the hell out of me.When he is done with me I am spent and do not even think about changing roles I am so content.

[Joshular]

Versatility makes for best sex

[NerdyGiant23]

I honestly view myself as versatile but I've never had sex outside of one experience with oral. So in reality I can't fully say that I'm versatile, but I imagine myself in both roles and I'm willing to top and/or bottom during sex. It depends on my partner and what he would want to do at the moment.

[Shiner]

versitile is best.

Naturally people will fall into whatever style they prefer but its good to change it up. Plus it can be fun to break the stereotypes, i.e having a tall more muscular guy being topped by a little twink.

[EvenOlderButWiser]

Ive always been versatile at home.

I cook, do the washing up and Im a dab hand with a hammer and screwdriver.

When it comes to bed time fun, Im strictly a TOP.

What? You want to put THAT where LoL....

ObW
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[Evan]

I'm almost exclusively top. I just don't like to bottom.. at all. I don't like the feeling, and I don't like not being in control. I'm willing to make a few exceptions, but only for the right guy; someone I'm in a long term relationship with, whom I trust, and whom I want to see happy. I wouldn't completely hate it in that case, although I'd still much prefer to top.

[SolemnBoy]

I'm pretty sexually inexperienced but I hated bottoming. I hated it I hated it I hated it I hated it.

[Beaux]

Technically, I am versatile.....however it really depends on the attraction I feel for my partner.
Some guys turn me on in such a way that I want to bottom for them, while I find other guys attractive in the way that I want to top them. Every once in a while.....pretty rarely actually.....I meet a guy who I feel attracted to both as a bottom and as a top. Like I said, though, that is pretty rare.

[Beaux]

I'm pretty sexually inexperienced but I hated bottoming. I hated it I hated it I hated it I hated it.

Bottoming, and the pressure a young gay person feels for explore that particular sexual role, can bring out a lot of stress in the early stages of dating relationships.
It can be particularly difficult if bottoming doesn't come "naturally" to you. Difficult and often very painful.
When I first tried bottoming in my early 20's I HATED it. First and foremost, it HURT. Secondly, at that time (the 90s), there was a distinct stigmata associated with bottoming. Due to these issues (mainly the PAIN), I declared that I was exclusively a Top and lived my life in that little box for quite a number of years after.
Eventually, I met my husband and he convinced me to give bottoming another chance. Once I had the opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality in a safe and relaxed enviroment, I discovered that I could really enjoy bottoming.
Once you learn how to control your sphincter muscles, bottoming transforms from SEARING ANAL PAIN into INTENSE ACHING PLEASURE. (Hint: Muscle control is the key to good -and Clean!- anal sex.)
Best of Luck!
Beau