Beau you hit right on the head.I was a 63 yr old straight guy or so I thought until my man got me.He is a great teacher very patient and took it slow and tender for my first time.It was a fantastic experience that brought the gay out of me.I would never even think of being anything other than a bottom with him.He is a great lover and I will do anything to please him.I am his cock slut.
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No topping for me, at all.
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I have rarely topped but I have done it. I still consider myself almost exclusively bottom though. I just enjoy every aspect of it more.
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Being versatile with a versatile partner is the IDEAL situation - and that's what i have with my partner of 4 years! It's so GREAT to not have to be burdened with a defined "position role."
I can't tell you HOW MANY relationships i've seen flower and die because ONE guy was a total bottom and his bf was versitle...within months the verse guy was cheating because his bottom boyfriend would NEVER even TRY to top - they broke up shortly thereafter!
So, if you're a "total top" or a "total bottom" just do yourself (and potential mates) a favor and ONLY search for and date guys who are opposite of your preferred position - or be willing to be in an open LTR!
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All I can say after all this banter...
If you do have penetrative sex with a partner... Try sticking it in the bum and try taking it in the bum. It's fun both ways folks (though I still agree anal stimulation makes a far bigger orgasm)
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