1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
An affinity for kindness, understanding, and willing to be honest
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)?
I like a nice pair of buttocks.
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
Being able to talk and chit-chat about meaninglessly deep issues.
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
He has a profile. :tongue:
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
An inability to learn
6) What does Love mean to You?
The ability to give and be grateful for what you are given
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
Depends on who is broke at the moment
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
I'll get back to this one when I get him to dance.
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
Laundry, grocery shopping, picking up a metric assload of Legos...
10) Do you approach or are approached?
Depends on who wants what at the time
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1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
A good sense of humour, intelligence and the ability to do things impulsively.
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)'
Humility, humour, musical talent and I prefer guys who are slim (neither chubby nor with abs) although I don't really have a problem with those bodytypes. Intelligence is one of the hottest things around unless it's caused some arrogance. Boys who are attractive without knowing it.
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
Anything that meant something to him I suppose? If he was just like "lol i don't know let's go grab a burger or something" it wouldn't be all that special. Hmmm... I'd very much like to ask all my future dates to take me to a place that's significant to them the first time. Maybe that'd come off as strange though. My ideal date can be anything from an amusement park, museum, regular park or just at home with a movie. There are plenty of ways for an ideal date to turn out.
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
Capable of making me laugh, someone I find physically handsome, intelligent, sweet, capable of more intimate and or deeper discussions. Oh, and he has to realize that the more I love him the meaner I can get when it comes to teasing and namecalling. If he can't understand when I'm joking it might be problematic :p
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
Poor hygiene, arrogance and opinions that don't sit well with me at all.
6) What does Love mean to You?
Pass.
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
It depends on a lot of things such as the economic status of both people. If I had an income for example, and he didn't, I'd probably offer to pay. I'd never ask him to pay for me but if our roles were reversed and he offered to I would consider accepting. As a a general rule I'd prefer it if he paid for himself and I paid for myself.
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
I don't dance. If anyone somehow managed to make me give it a try I'd rely on him to lead...
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
It depends! I'd probably suggest picknicking, a movie, dinner with music and then some intimacy.
10) Do you approach or are approached?
I've never approached and I probably never will. That shit's just too scary.
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1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
Calm,attentive,sense of humour.
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)'
High cheekbones - ooh,love them! Also taller for men and shorter for women,but not too much. A charming smile. Black glasses with a broad side.
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
Either a romantic dinner or a karaoke duet~
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
Bernardo Velasco! Haha,in reality,some one with large appetite like I do,so that we could always opt for buffet :tongue: ,but at the same time,he/she knows to take care of his/her body health. Have a nice voice,it would be lovely to karaoke duet sometimes and appreciate each other's voice. Always up to new things,easy to mingle,that's as much as I could think of.
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
Feminine/masculine for men/women, fat+short,short-tempered (it reminds me of my dad,so a big no no),and poor hygiene,hairy. As a potential friend,I wouldn't mind 1st and 2nd traits.
6) What does Love mean to You?
Pass as I've never been in one.
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
I'll prefer to go Dutch,but I think it's more romantic if the one who invites pay for it,saying so,it would probably be nice to take turns in inviting in the first place.
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
I don't know how to dance,so I guess I'll just follow.
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
Watching some comedy movies/series while cuddling each other~
10) Do you approach or are approached?
"I've never approached and I probably never will. That shit's just too scary" - can't agree more with SolemnBoy,LOL. I've tried to approach in online dating app,but I could never find the right word to make a good conversation starter or even making a good first impression,and so I left before I even know the other side ever replied or not,gosh that was scary! 
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s1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
Dignity, a strong work ethic, and a pony.
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)'
I don't care what he looks like as long as his hair is cut exactly like Will Ferrel's in Zoolander
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
I open the door to greet him after dousing myself in my favorite aftershave. Our eyes meet, we both feel that special something, then he kicks me in my stomach. As I'm on the ground groaning he hauls me into the trunk of his car, duct tape's my mouth closed, but not too tight (he is, after all, a gentleman), and then we just see where the night takes us.
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
Ten feet tall with tiny little fingers.
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
A vagina
6) What does Love mean to You?
A court summons
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
If I'm "Going Dutch," I expect to be paid my usual rate.
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
What?
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
Weeping in each other's arms then alternately threatening the other with violence.... I am of course using my parent's relationship as a model.
10) Do you approach or are approached?
Approached, with a burlap sack thrown over my head first.
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1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
Ethics, kindness, and intelligence
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)'
[COLOR="Navy"]Men: hairy legs, nice ass, smiling-sparkling eyes, sense of humor and brain. Glasses. lol
I'm not turned on by women, but I find women of Indian heritage (Norah Jones) beautiful.[/color]
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
Miniature golf and pizza!
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
No one is perfect but my bf is perfect for me. : ) A service-oriented, empathic man who has a global world view.
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
Condescending, mean, racist, controlling, user, quick temper, drugs, non-reader, clingy, wanting me to be his 'everything', non-stop talker, lack of self-awareness.
6) What does Love mean to You?
Very difficult to answer, but will try. Romantic love is cerebral to me and very much intertwined with respect. It's a profound connection yet seeing clearly and accepting the other as is. There's a depth of caring, sharing, giving and honesty. It's holding that person or being held by that person and no matter where you are, you are home.
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
If I initiate, I pay. I always offer to go Dutch. Once in a relationship we each put $ into our date budget. lol.
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
Both, it depends on my mood and also if it's a special song.
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
Snuggle-time, shower, fix brunch together, unplug (no phones/electronics) and talk. Errands, run or bike ride, shower, fix dinner, cuddle watching movie, reading or surfing the web on sofa or in bed.
10) Do you approach or are approached?
I've mainly been approached by girls in college. My bf approached me and we built a friendship before we started dating. I don't think I would ever approach a random person as I would want to know more about a person's character before I would consider them "date material."
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Odi, I owe you my Shelly story!!! I didn't know where to post and didn't want to start a new thread as only the two of us here would probably appreciate it and my threads usually bore everyone else. Lol.
First, I'm sorry you had to part with Sora but I understand. 
So one day I was feeding Shelly, talking to him and telling him how beautiful he is. You know...and he's so alert with his head out of the water listening. I walk away to go wash my hands and my bf is laughing his ass off. Apparently, after I walked away Shelly was at the corner of his tank, scratching/frantically swimming. Bf was joking it was as if Shelly was trying to swim after me. I never noticed him doing this before as he use to be more interested in his food. Now if I start talking to him he listens, starts bobbing up and down or does this scratching thing. So we started testing this out and he only does this with me and you can hear his nails scratching the glass. Bf said this started in the Spring, maybe Shelly is looking for a mate. Me! Lol!!  Yet, when I take him out his tank in the grass he has no interest in me, it's more like "freedom!"
It's silly but I thought you would have a good laugh at Shelly and me! :tongue:
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1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
* Personality must work with mine (Most people I'm ok with but couldn't date)
*Love my mum (I love my mum if anyone has a problem with her then they must die)
*Just be a general babe
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)'
Ummmm this is hard to describe. Tall. Cute/hot/attractive (all things that are subjective)
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
Something simple
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
Someone who isn't perfect
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
lots of stuff
6) What does Love mean to You?
Another part of myself.
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
Huh?
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
Both
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
Umm go for a walking, socializing, time to ourselves or play computer games together.
10) Do you approach or are approached?
I can't approach anyone I want cos I have a shell and it automatically stops me short
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1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart? - A big penis.
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman - A big penis.
3) What would be an Ideal first date? - experiencing his big penis for the first time..
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman. - Must have big penis..
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner? - Having a small penis.
6) What does Love mean to You? - A big penis..
.. ok kidding, lol...
Really:
1) What are 3 important things you would like for your partner to have to win your heart?
A good sense of humour, a similar taste in music, intelligence / kindness.
2) What turns you on in a Man/Woman(answer for both, I.e- Broad Chest in men and a Nice Ass on a woman, if applicable)'
Speaking strictly physical.. I'm not too picky, though I do <3 Facial hair and piercings. Besides that, good hygiene, a sense of humor.. kindness.
3) What would be an Ideal first date?
Simply going to the pub for a few beers, hitting up karaoke.. seeing a movie.. going out for dinner, it all depends on the person I'm getting with. I'm easy..like sunday morning.. as long as it's something we're both comfortable with and can conjure discussion and getting to know each other :p
4) Describe your Perfect Man/Woman.
Someone who simply likes to go out and do things. Being active is important, I hate sitting around in the house. A good sense of humour is a must, as well as being reasonable and kind, and capable of having an intellectual conversation. A similar taste in music would also be great.. a love for animals.. and someone who likes to see bands live and just overall have a good time  .
5) What would turn you off in a potential partner?
Ignorance, racism, overall douchey behavior.
6) What does Love mean to You?
I've never found it. I'll let you know if I ever do.
7) Do you go Dutch, take turns or exclusively pay at a restaurant?
This is a good question.. and I'm not sure. I generally feel inclined to pay when I invite someone on a date.
8) When dancing, do you lead or follow?
I don't dance.. unless I get really wasted.. and by that point you can't really call it dancing.
9) What would a typical mutual day off entail for you and your partner?
Eh? The normal day to day... get done what needs to be done... add a little cuddling in and some good music, good food.. and just good time spent together and I'm happy.
10) Do you approach or are approached?
Approach me please o.O.
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