Well, I'm not being sarcastic, nor do I fear the "Goodie-Goodie" Police.
T the OP: Your post makes me sick to my stomach, much the same way Woddy Allen makes me sick when I think about him hooking up with his "daughter".
The feeling is intensified wheni read things like "I want to go down that road anyway..."
Imo? You certainly are going down a dark road.
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The original poster is no longer in a professional relationship ("Position of Trust" as it's known in the UK), there is no issue in this respect.
Any individual who feels from their words that I am criticizing him is entitled to draw such an adverse inference.
I've had my say on that particular matter and don't intend to continue a correspondence on that issue.
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Once again, thank you all. I am in no way looking for a relationship with my friend. Just because I want one doesn't mean I'm going to act on it. I agree - I asked, he told me no, and that's that. I think I may not have been extremely clear about that because I was so emotional last night. He had come over for a visit with his girlfriend, and that is what triggered me to write the post. Gay, straight, or bi, he is not interested in me, and I don't want to Chase after someone I know I can't have. The only way I can think to get over the feelings is to cut him out of my life, but I really don't want to do that. He has grown into a great friend. I'm going to see him soon and tell him he can't move in with his girlfriend. If he asks why, I will be honest with him, otherwise I will leave it at my answer.
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