07-19-2013, 04:22 AM
Well.
I have met a guy the year before, via Internet in one of those dating websites, at November.
Since then, I had been talking with him about various things, and to get to know each other. I was getting interested about him... he seemed an guy I could be with. After some talking, we've made some videochat to see closely each other. I got interested even more. Then this year we planned to meat personally each other at the place where he lives.
I spent the whole afternoon with him, since lunch, and found more about him (and he learned more about me). It was so fun, and I was enjoying being with him. He said he enjoyed being with me too.
Since then we have been trading Messages via Mobile, and sometimes phoning. I invited him to my place (when I was in University, I had my own home). He accepted and came there.
When he arrived, we went to the shopping and we took a coffee. Then we went to my place, to have lunch. After that, we went to my bedroom. Since we had an attraction to each other (well, that's what I thought, since I've been making my moves, and he responded to them too) we start playing which other and making physical contact. Then, we kissed, and have been kissing for a while. He wanted to move further, but I said no, because I don't wanted to be easy. So we started seeing something on the computer while having our hands joined. We spent the afternoon being together like this, and then he had to go at the end of the day. I said to him I enjoyed being to him, and he said the same to me too, and I think he was honest.
We have been trading Messages and phoning each other, but since 2 months ago, he stopped doing more often, until recently he doesnt send me messages anymore.
Last week, I talked to him to see what was going on (without implying directly why he is not comunicating to me). He said he wasn't having time to chat with others because of being very busy with work, working more hours now because we're on summer. I said to him "I understand". I waited some weeks now ((I don't want to constatly bug him), but he doesn't seem interested in me anymore.
One more thing. Because we live a bit far, we haven't been able to be more times together, even though is easier know, because I finished university, and I'm on vacation now.
What you think I should do? Should I speak to him and ask if he want to go for a coffee or something like that... or should I forget about him? (even though the saturday before he asked me How was I").
Give me some advice please
I have met a guy the year before, via Internet in one of those dating websites, at November.
Since then, I had been talking with him about various things, and to get to know each other. I was getting interested about him... he seemed an guy I could be with. After some talking, we've made some videochat to see closely each other. I got interested even more. Then this year we planned to meat personally each other at the place where he lives.
I spent the whole afternoon with him, since lunch, and found more about him (and he learned more about me). It was so fun, and I was enjoying being with him. He said he enjoyed being with me too.
Since then we have been trading Messages via Mobile, and sometimes phoning. I invited him to my place (when I was in University, I had my own home). He accepted and came there.
When he arrived, we went to the shopping and we took a coffee. Then we went to my place, to have lunch. After that, we went to my bedroom. Since we had an attraction to each other (well, that's what I thought, since I've been making my moves, and he responded to them too) we start playing which other and making physical contact. Then, we kissed, and have been kissing for a while. He wanted to move further, but I said no, because I don't wanted to be easy. So we started seeing something on the computer while having our hands joined. We spent the afternoon being together like this, and then he had to go at the end of the day. I said to him I enjoyed being to him, and he said the same to me too, and I think he was honest.
We have been trading Messages and phoning each other, but since 2 months ago, he stopped doing more often, until recently he doesnt send me messages anymore.
Last week, I talked to him to see what was going on (without implying directly why he is not comunicating to me). He said he wasn't having time to chat with others because of being very busy with work, working more hours now because we're on summer. I said to him "I understand". I waited some weeks now ((I don't want to constatly bug him), but he doesn't seem interested in me anymore.
One more thing. Because we live a bit far, we haven't been able to be more times together, even though is easier know, because I finished university, and I'm on vacation now.
What you think I should do? Should I speak to him and ask if he want to go for a coffee or something like that... or should I forget about him? (even though the saturday before he asked me How was I").
Give me some advice please