Feeeling increasingly "bi" - should I act on my feelings?

[pellaz]

welcome to gay speak first off

love the one your with.
relationships are mostly the same thing gay straight or bi and are a lot of work, you should ask your self if thats what you want in your life just now

being gay is being able to carry on a same sex relationship with better success than other options. little to do with porn.

[peterparker909]

Thanks all for the advice! Weirdly enough, I do feel better for sharing...

I'm well aware that acting on these feelings whilst in my current relationship most certainly constitutes cheating, and that's not my intention at all.

I guess I'm thinking about the future, when I'll be either:

1. Single and in a position freely to explore these feelings, or
2. Still in my current relationship and wondering how / if I should share this with my partner; it strikes me that it's probably not really fair to her to keep this to myself indefinitely.

Either way, I can't really argue with "focus on that relationship you're in now".

[bluefox4000]

Personally......labeling needs to stop......period. Go with whatever is gonna make you happy.

Mick

[Bowyn Aerrow]

1. Single and in a position freely to explore these feelings, or
2. Still in my current relationship and wondering how / if I should share this with my partner; it strikes me that it's probably not really fair to her to keep this to myself indefinitely.

1. Seems to me you have long term goals for this relationship set - the goal appears to be you don't want it to last... ? IDK

2. If you are bi/gay and with a woman and want to explore that other side of you, yeah she needs to know. If you suspect that your love for her is less than it could be because you are gay/bi then you need to be considerate and give her the option to seek a man who can give 100% of himself.