10-09-2013, 09:36 AM
Good morning (GMT+2),
My name is Jules. I am half Caucasian-Asian, 19 years old. I speak French equivalently to native speakers.
First-meet : We have been with each others for two months. We met in a private welcoming party of a common friend of us working for a European aeronautic business who just moved to Bangkok. At the beginning we were both not in the good mood of your exes (mine were Icelander and a few French). As soon as we talk, the sadness just disappeared and we started to enjoy our conversation as if we had known each other for a long time. Finishing party, I drove him to his hotel and there we started a long conversation and falling for each other.
Him : He is 50 years old. He looks like somebody in his 40 or 45. Muscled gentleman with well-educated manners who always respects me. He is 100% caucasian and Frenchy-headed.
ME : I am 19 years old. I am 192 cm. tall and this doesn't make me look somebody in my age at all. I am turned off with those discussions about gossip things and prefer somebody who discusses politics, human rights, economy and business. I started a business with an on-line RPG game when I was 17 and I was successful of obtaining monthly a thousand dollar profit which is a holy-grail for my life, then I decided to stop as I have to concentrate on study several months later.
Common points we often discuss: French politics, US politics, airlines policy with their customers and workers, First and Second World War, religions, Europe history.... We are both French left-headed. He=socialism. Me=moderate liberalism.
We see each other: Basically at least we stay 3 days a month together. Either he flies to Bangkok where I do my degrees or I fly to see him in France, or taking some days off in other gay-friendly countries: HK, Vietnam, Germany, Europe and Asia.
What I like in him : Maturity, respects, Monarchism, a man who cares little important details and CAREs for me, his patient to me especially with my expenses
What he told he LIKED in me : overaged maturity, sense of humour, a first person telling love, a first guy to make him feel in the ways he never felt before
What I wish to fix in him : Pessimism about the big age difference in our relation. He always says he is afraid that someday a good-looking me would leave him...
What HE wishes to fix in ME : over-expensing with French products.
Our plan: We have been living with each others for weeks. For me, if everything remains the same, I'll accept his proposal to a French PACS (social contract) which will instantly give an annual residence permit in France for me and a privilege to unlimited air tickets to every single part of the world.
Having read a few topics concerning the same problem here, I still think my case is a really special one with this age gap difference in the gay history. I always tell him not to worry even Madonna (55) has been with a 24 y/o boyfriend, maybe the right one for somebody is not born yet.
QUESTION: I'm in a serious relation with a French guy who ages 31 years than me. I just wonder to see how you guys think and see our relation? Personally, I think this is not going to be easy, but it is going to be worthwhile. I have been always thinking of getting into a serious relationship with a reasonable Mr.Right. I am not a kind of beautiful-world person and am even realistic. What kind of difficulty we would face since this age gap?
Thanks to you guys helping me out
Jules
My name is Jules. I am half Caucasian-Asian, 19 years old. I speak French equivalently to native speakers.
First-meet : We have been with each others for two months. We met in a private welcoming party of a common friend of us working for a European aeronautic business who just moved to Bangkok. At the beginning we were both not in the good mood of your exes (mine were Icelander and a few French). As soon as we talk, the sadness just disappeared and we started to enjoy our conversation as if we had known each other for a long time. Finishing party, I drove him to his hotel and there we started a long conversation and falling for each other.
Him : He is 50 years old. He looks like somebody in his 40 or 45. Muscled gentleman with well-educated manners who always respects me. He is 100% caucasian and Frenchy-headed.
ME : I am 19 years old. I am 192 cm. tall and this doesn't make me look somebody in my age at all. I am turned off with those discussions about gossip things and prefer somebody who discusses politics, human rights, economy and business. I started a business with an on-line RPG game when I was 17 and I was successful of obtaining monthly a thousand dollar profit which is a holy-grail for my life, then I decided to stop as I have to concentrate on study several months later.
Common points we often discuss: French politics, US politics, airlines policy with their customers and workers, First and Second World War, religions, Europe history.... We are both French left-headed. He=socialism. Me=moderate liberalism.
We see each other: Basically at least we stay 3 days a month together. Either he flies to Bangkok where I do my degrees or I fly to see him in France, or taking some days off in other gay-friendly countries: HK, Vietnam, Germany, Europe and Asia.
What I like in him : Maturity, respects, Monarchism, a man who cares little important details and CAREs for me, his patient to me especially with my expenses
What he told he LIKED in me : overaged maturity, sense of humour, a first person telling love, a first guy to make him feel in the ways he never felt before
What I wish to fix in him : Pessimism about the big age difference in our relation. He always says he is afraid that someday a good-looking me would leave him...
What HE wishes to fix in ME : over-expensing with French products.
Our plan: We have been living with each others for weeks. For me, if everything remains the same, I'll accept his proposal to a French PACS (social contract) which will instantly give an annual residence permit in France for me and a privilege to unlimited air tickets to every single part of the world.
Having read a few topics concerning the same problem here, I still think my case is a really special one with this age gap difference in the gay history. I always tell him not to worry even Madonna (55) has been with a 24 y/o boyfriend, maybe the right one for somebody is not born yet.
QUESTION: I'm in a serious relation with a French guy who ages 31 years than me. I just wonder to see how you guys think and see our relation? Personally, I think this is not going to be easy, but it is going to be worthwhile. I have been always thinking of getting into a serious relationship with a reasonable Mr.Right. I am not a kind of beautiful-world person and am even realistic. What kind of difficulty we would face since this age gap?
Thanks to you guys helping me out
Jules