10-23-2013, 12:46 AM
All he admits to is having oral sex with men. Had he been honest from the beginning or did you catch him? Having a same sex attraction and attempting to hide it can be deeper than how it appears on face value. It's not necessarily how he feels about you but how he feels about himself.
If he has never concealed this from you I wouldn't be incredibly concerned. But if you found things in his cell phone and asked him then he confessed he may not be completely honest. I hate to say it this way but he has already lied to you.
Ask yourself this, do you believe that it's just a blow job? If it is dose out only remain a blow job? Why does he find men to do it? Women will give head also.
I think there is something fishy here. Never met a straight guy that would have oral sex with another guy, but I certainly haven't met everybody. Could it be that simple, sure.
In the end it falls on you, can you live with this?
If he has never concealed this from you I wouldn't be incredibly concerned. But if you found things in his cell phone and asked him then he confessed he may not be completely honest. I hate to say it this way but he has already lied to you.
Ask yourself this, do you believe that it's just a blow job? If it is dose out only remain a blow job? Why does he find men to do it? Women will give head also.
I think there is something fishy here. Never met a straight guy that would have oral sex with another guy, but I certainly haven't met everybody. Could it be that simple, sure.
In the end it falls on you, can you live with this?