Straight, Curious, Advice?!

[nfisher1226]

Mason - I wasn't meaning to call you stupid at all. I don't think the others were either. However, I think you get the point that it's a stereotype that doesn't hold true.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Ok, I know calling myself 100% straight was stupid. Shouldn't have said that. .

Stupid? No - naive, ignorant - maybe, a little - or a lot.

Stupid is what people do when they know better and do it anyway. I think in your case you are trying to figure out who and what you are. It does not help you have guys telling you bald faced lies about what being gay is. It doesn't help that society has painted the image of a gay man as being a 'sissy' or 'girly' while totally ignoring the fact that the majority of the gays in the world are just 'dudes' - just 'guys' who make no big deal about their sexuality.

Media, stereotypes, many, many decades of hatred spewing 'politics' has lead to ignorance for not only the real idiots (those who refuse to learn) but for those who are really, truly ignorant and have lots of questions.

[Memby]

I don't care who I find attractive honestly. If it's a dude it's a dude

You don't need any advice - you've answered your own question!

[davearoo]

hook up before it becomes too public.

Every guy who isn't openly gay becomes the target of teasing and gay rumors at one time or another. Most people pay no attention to this kind of thing.

[yoyoyo148]

I highly think that you're bisexual. And it's great that you're not holding yourself back "fuck it if it's a dude it's a dude" haha love it! But sometimes a bisexual person chooses to be in a relationship with a specific gender. They go for women when they're going through a romantic phase, but they go for dudes to have sex only.. or the other way around. I know that you can't help it when you like someone, you just like them but they don't feel anything in a romantic way for the gender they don't choose to be in a relationship with because they avoid them without giving them a chance, their minds are already made up.
You are straight when you see someone of the same sex, someone who looks pretty good and go "wow he/she looks good, congrats on da face (lol)" or "i'd like to have his/her lips (or whatever)" and you keep moving on your way. Simple.
Some people don't even realize that they like both sexes. They suppress their feelings and pay no attention to what's going on inside their heads. It's sometimes easier to let go and not to question it that much.