Fundamental ethical question

[MisterLove]

I met this guy a few years ago and he's become a fuck buddy of sorts.

It's not friendship, it's not love, it's just great sex. We meet every now and then for sex and it's always awesome: he's really good at it and he has one of the best dicks I've ever seen (not just huge but really beautiful, even though he never uses it because he's a bottom lol)

The problem is the guy's a douchebag. I know he blackmailed a former boyfriend of his.

Should I keep seeing him?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Would the sex be any better if he wasn't a douchebag?

If not, then why quit now?

[Matt]

Well. This all depends.

Why did he blackmail the ex? Do you have anything he could blackmail you over?

I'm not seeing the ethical issue here.

[MisterLove]

I don't know.

I always thought that 'keep good company' was the most sensible advice ever. I believe in that. And yet, I do the exact opposite and keep seeing a guy that is rotten but amazing in bed.

Should a sex date be just about sex or does character also matter?

I have this paranoia that he secretly films our sex encounters, last time I even put away his webcam, just in case.

[southbiochem]

If indeed it's just sex...I don't see a problem...

but if you are unsure about stuff, or if you're getting uncomfortable by the situation, maybe you should stop seing him...do what feel best for you

[partis]

its not love, its not friendship, its just great sex, unless you have anything to hide or something incriminating just go for it, if it makes you happy.

though blackmail is a particulaly ugly thing to do, without knowing more i cant comment on the ethics.

[Genersis]

Personally, I wouldn't go near the guy.
It sounds like he could get very nasty if he wants to.

[trialbyerror]

May I weigh in on this?

By having to ask the question, me-thinks you have answered yourself

Duckkie

[MisterLove]

its not love, its not friendship, its just great sex, unless you have anything to hide or something incriminating just go for it, if it makes you happy.

though blackmail is a particulaly ugly thing to do, without knowing more i cant comment on the ethics.

Very ugly indeed, he's not a good person.

And I'm pretty sure he did something horrible to his cat, I couldn't find it last time I went there.