7 Signs You Are Working With a Psychopath

[Bowyn Aerrow]

This does not match my experience. My mother was a bona-fide psychopath and she cried with both eyes and was in the here and now.

About the only thing that applies was her cagy way of answering questions.

Most psychopaths are very well schools on right and wrong behaviors and work over time to blend in.

The word psychopath is being thrown around willy-nilly I fear. According to the DSM everyone is a psychopath or sociopath or have the behaviors to one degree or another.

And for the record I cry more out of my right eye than my left eye - this is a physiological issue as the tear ducts in my left eye are frelled.

As for Black....

I can only think of 6 blacks that demanded anything from me. The rest were respectful enough. I spent plenty of time in the Tenderloin, in Oakland, etc in predominately black neighborhoods.

You treat people with respect and you get respect back. Regardless of their race.

Of course if you act like a bigot they are going to treat you with little to no respect. I suspect by your generalized statement of "99% of blacks are____________." you most likely reek of bigotry thus attract unwanted behaviors from people who can tell right off you have 'issues' and don't deserve respect.

I bet your body language screams 'I hate you!' when you deal with a person of color....

[Vigilias]

*Sniffs*

Do I detect a hint of burning cross!

[Vigilias]

I stay away from the forums for a little while and it all turns in a Nazi Party rally!

[southbiochem]

I stay away from the forums for a little while and it all turns in a Nazi Party rally!

just this one thread Vigilias, just this one thread

now, BORDER JUSTICE, GIVE POMERANIA AND SILESIA BACK TO GOOD GERMANY YOU POLES!!!!!..

GIVE TRANSYLVANIA BACK TO HUNGARY YOU ROMANIANS.....AND.....

oh, wait, what were we discussing again?...

[MisterTinkles]

Not my experience of California. But maybe it's because I'm female. What about other guys in California, this match your experience? :confused:

No guys in my life have ever talked about it...

And my black BFF was raised to see white society as antipathic to them at best (not that she got sucked into that) and not expect any favors from whites. Another thing she described was the burden of acting good because every time there was a major crime many would hoped the person who did it "wasn't black" as when someone black does it then the entire black community suffers the infamy for it rather than the individual. And once I showed her a pic of the audience at the award where Kanye was obnoxious to Taylor Swift showing how mean women could be because the women in it were laughing at how Taylor got treated but one man (a black man) looked distressed and even horrified but she told me that was probably less chivalry and more "oh crap, that jerk just made all black men look like assholes." And that also makes me think it wouldn't be too common to encourage kids to go harass people for money at the mall, especially as it would invite "misunderstandings" with security and the police, and btw getting on welfare and staying on it isn't easy, not even in California, and the state can be real hard sometimes inspecting the children to see if the mothers on welfare are fit to raise them.

I lost my job when I was in CA, and I had to go apply for unemployment (and also food stamps). While I was there, I noticed a LOT of blacks driving $50,000+ SUVs, Cadillacs, Jaguars, BMWs and other more expensive vehicles. They came in "dripping" in gold, silver, $500 Nikes, $1200 designer outfits, $2000 designer shoes, and one woman was even wearing a freeking MINK COAT!!! And they had NO problem getting $1200 in food stamps or money for rent!!!
Where I was at the police and the local court Judges, as well as the city councils are all viciously corrupt. The police go around creating dangerous situations on the streets, in order to give people tickets. I saw, many, many times, the police slamming on their brakes in the middle of the road to jump out and attack somebody on a bicycle!!

One of my best friends is black, and she still lives there. Some of her kids are like that....and she cant figure out why, because she taught them to be motivated people who need to work for a living and treat others with respect and honesty. But they dont, they abuse the system, lie, cheat, and steal. She's disowned two of her sons because of this, and one of her daughters because all she does is get pregnant again when she runs out of welfare money.

I could go on for days on stuff I have witnessed. But suffice to say, Im am shocked that CA has any money for anything, with all the corruption in city and state offices, and all the obvious cheats, liars, and theives that are allowed to cheat the system from benefits that needy people actually need to survive.

[Pix]

The people I've seen like that get their money from legalized loan shark stores rather than welfare, and I see every color doing that.

HUD is very hard to get on and even when you do it requires yearly inspections and they have a zero tolerance policy. A house that's a total mess and signs of drugs is going to be shut down. Perhaps some HUD inspectors take bribes but when I worked with the homeless I sure met enough who lost their HUD (or couldn't get on in the first place).

Emergency Relief gives vouchers for many items including shelter (I think about 5 days in a cheap motel per month) but demands to be paid back.

Food stamps were a little over a $120 a month for the homeless though the average in 2012 was just under $150. Food stamps offices also count other welfare bennies when determining what you can get (for example, if you get SSI then you are not eligible for food stamps, and HUD also counts though I forget by how much). They give some people a hard time as well and if you're ever busted for drugs then you're ineligible, and they check you out with computers tied into state information that list welfare bennies, tax returns, and criminal records with stiff penalties for those who try to cheat. ETA: even getting free food from the food bank I used to volunteer at was counted by the food stamp office (with possible criminal charges if they neglected to report it).

I don't know if the EBT/food stamps office count WIC (for mothers only) or not but I do know that some get in trouble through surprise inspections and they're expected to show a healthy and safe home for social workers, and keeping a home clean filled with small children in addition to all the other requirements they impose is pretty much a full time job.

Welfare takes time to get on, typically anywhere from weeks to years and once on there are reviews and inspections ranging from quarterly to yearly, and at least in some cases gods help you if they find you didn't report income which at the very least is likely to dock your bennies and possibly result in criminal charges.

Furthermore, President Clinton signed something into law that essentially limits how long you can be on welfare unless you're disabled, I believe less than 3 years (again, disability payments cancel food stamps and HUD rarely, if ever, pays full cost) and I'm sure business owners seeking to exploit cheap labor can pay far more in bribes to welfare offices than people on welfare can (and as for actual drug dealers, the street dealer usually doesn't have that much and laws are such that cops can automatically claim everything you own anyway if they bust you for drugs, something corrupt cops take full advantage of, and once busted for drugs then what welfare you can get is severely limited).

[Eros]

I invite you over there to the southern part of the USA to come and check it out.
Visit California..it is the worst, but the southern part of the US is catching up to them.

I mean, in California blacks will walk right up to you and DEMAND you give them money. Right there IN PUBLIC.
And they teach their kids to do this. I could not keep count of how many black kids roamed the shopping centers and malls there in CA, walking up to people DEMANDING you give them money! I dont know how many people just had the unmitigated NERVE to just walk up to me and DEMAND I give them money for booze, the bus, food, and clothes!!!
I stopped one kid who was about 7 years old one day and asked him why he did this. He said his mother made him. Apparently she sat at home all day, collecting welfare checks, watching Oprah, and dealing drugs out of her apartment. She made her kids go out and panhandle for money so she could buy expensive clothes, booze, and go out with her "men friends".
I had stopped another black kid at a different location and asked him why he did this, and he said his mother sat in front of the tv all day, eating delivered food. If he didnt bring home enough money for her to order in food, he would get beaten and then have to sleep outside in the cold at night. This kid was about 12 years old.

So yeah, from my experience in the USA, this is the mentality of most black people, and they teach their kids this. And then they teach their kids, and so on......
Its sick and its sad, and its a drain on the economy and economic system in this country.

I had an argument with one black guy, because he kept calling himself "African American" and spouting that HE deserved to have EVERYTHING given to him on a "silver platter" because HIS ancestors were slaves. But in our conversation, he tripped himself up and said his grandparents were from Spain and his great grandparents were Brazilian or something like that. I told him he was NOT "African American" then, he was just abusing the system to weasel free stuff. He had no right to be spouting to everybody that his ancestors were slaves in this country, much less demanding that he be given everything he wanted in life, for FREE!!!

This is the average mentality of blacks in this country. Dont get mad at me for it, thats the way it is here.

No, not all black people are like that, but it is the main, standard way of thinking they have here.

Blacks from other cultures do not seem to be like this. A lot of them are offended at how the blacks are here in the USA. And some of them think its the best scam going, so they start doing it too.

I have black friends and they hate these types of blacks because they say they are dragging the whole race down, and thats why there is still so much bigotry against black people in this country.

Hopefully one day, the will see their stupidity and how it is destroying the country, their kids, and themselves. But right now, they dont care.....its all about money and how to get it without doing anything.

I will say though, I have seen a SMALL change in the mindset of blacks in the area where I live in the past three years. Hard working people, teaching their kids that education is the key to success...not sitting on your ass all day, expecting to get free stuff all of your life. I hope this trend continues.

Ok, putting soapbox away..